As most of us here, I have a huge interest in alternate dynamics (D/S, FLR, anything BDSM)! However, I tend to be grounded in reality and crave something that can last for a long time.

In fact I'd like to find my forever person! (I'm a hopeless romantic)

My last relationship lasted 7.5 years, and it taught me a LOT about what I'm looking for and how to be happy forever.

I'm at the stage where I'm very emotionally available, and I have all my ducks in a row. You'll be impressed!

I work in software on super cool projects, I'm a competitive olympic weightlifter, I have a crippling car obsession, I like to design things, and the list goes on. Passion and ambition aren't something I lack. I always play on the hardest difficulty!

So if you're someone who wants to get into the gym, do activities (or do nothing), and be creative, I'm your guy! I'd like to work on projects togheter and overall be each other's complement! (I'm also totally a house cat if that's your thing)

I think my dream is to find someone to share mutual devotion and obsession. I need to put emphasis on being open minded and loving exploration, I always like to try new things!

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Hence, my main kinks at the moment: being dominated (any flavor), mind conditioning, chastity cages, anything oral, service/submission, free use, even light humiliation! I'm really looking for someone who is curious and passionate about these as well and will be willing to dominate me! I love bonding, deep conversations, and being vulnerable. I have many love languages!

I usually post a super long list of kinks, but I've come to realize that I'd rather have them surface up organically with my special someone. I think everyone is a bit different and doesn't want to put each other in boxes right from the start! But yes, the list is extensive...

I'd definitely say I'm sapio/demi, so someone who can stimulate me mentally is definitely a must. And reciprocation can be expected!

Also, for me at this stage, I'm only looking for in-person things as I'm looking to pour all my resources and energy.

I'm obviously willing to verify and would love to get to know someone with similar interests and goals!