Hello! I have been thinking a lot about a relationship lately. I've got close to some people before, but can't be certain they want to make things work. More about that later.

About me, I'm m21. Living around Montreal. I can go downtown to meet. We can talk about interests together later, I don't think matching hobbies or passions from the beginning is necessary, want you with what you like.

What I'm looking for, I'll be honest about my 'life goal', I want marriage one day. More about the philosophical aspect of going trough life together. I want to be a good husband, that means achieving a stable point in life so I don't have to worry about daily life things like work. Doesn't mean our life has to be plain.

Why I am using this subreddit? Because I want to explore sex stuff together too. It's common for people who look for that kind of married life to want to hold on the sexual stuff until then. Slightly scared I find someone who wants to wait. I want to try bdsm relationship things together. Kinks and fantasies in general too. The nuance is, I don't want a sexually based relationship. Like something fun we do together.

I'm also hoping for someone who wants to share life together, not like tell me about your day and that's it. More about going trough the day together, getting involved in your interests, and dreams.

Also a romantic side, like going on cute dates together, spending time, and that kind of mushy stuff.

All relationship have issues some days. I want someone who I can talk and work things trough instead of letting it grow. We might get mad and uncomfortable together somedays, but even then I want us to still be caring and loving while we work things out.

This was long. I thought writing a paragraph being directly honest can help us avoid a relationship that fails. I've learned love can be hurtful, and want to make things right. If you want to talk about my philosophy feel free to DM too, I know this is an unconventional way to find something 😅