Well hello there!
As the title suggests I am looking for a Daddy for an in and out of the bedroom dynamic! Open to more aswell down the road but just got out of a 4 year LTR so I wanna take my time hahah oh and I'm also kind of new to this but I have made alot of research/reading on the topic π
So here's a few lists for ya! Because knowledge is power! So have some power you handsome human being βΊοΈπ
What im looking for in a Daddy: -While im not into age play, a paternal figure -Hairy Dad Bod π€€ -Kind -Stern -Caring -Acceptant -Must love cuddles hahah -Open about their wants/needs/boundaries -Willing to provide a clear set of rules/frameworks for life. (something about rules, I really love and find reassuring in a way?)
What I feel I can offer as a submissive: -My obedience (although I might brat at times π ) -Genuine care -Admiration -Lots of cuddles and affection -An eagerness to learn what you need me to learn -Attentiveness to your wants and needs -Open communication about my wants/needs/boundaries -And finally lots of sex because I am a slut π€·ββοΈπ
The Fuck Yes list (AKA the π£π«π¦π¦ list): -Authority -Being Chastised/made to apologize π₯΅ -Being called a Good Girl -Pain (hard impacts over smaller rapid ones ) -Being made to obey -Just obeying tbh π -Bratting out and paying for it π€ -Kindness cause that shit really is sexy haha
The "Shit makes me feel safe as fuck" list: -Clear rules/framework -Enforced bedtime?? π€·ββοΈπ -Clear consequences/punishments -Praise -Ownership -Making sure I sleep right, eat, drink, take my meds etc.. -Just nurturing vibes in general -Cuddling with Daddy -My head on Daddy's lap :3 -Protective vibes
The Yellow/Maybe list: -Edging? (Potential trigger but curious to try with caution!)
The "I don't like it" list: -Lack of punishment for bad behavior (somehow makes me feel uncared for)
The Hard limits list: -Poly -Scat -Blood -Human ashtray -Being told to shut up -Punishment by denying presence/attention -Being treated as replacable/disposable
Ps: I have HPV so you must either be vaccinated for it or have it too (takes about 3 doses of vaccine to be permanent but it pretty much starts working immediately after the 1st dose soo yay for that! π₯³)
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