Hey there :)

My name is Matt. I am 28 and I live in central Kentucky. I consider myself a pleasure dom/daddy/caregiver. I like to focus on things like giving multiple orgasms, edging, public play, giving oral and overall just pleasuring and making my princess/sub happy. I do not like receiving oral - it is very rare that I do.

In the interest of transparency, I am married. My wife knows I am looking and is supportive of my finding a partner. She is mono but is willing to verbally or in person give consent if you like for your own peace of mind.

I've been around the community for awhile now though it seems I learn something new every day, and my role seems to be evolving as I learn.

Lately some things have happened that have helped me learn what I really want. I hate to be picky, but it seems what I want is very specific.

So what am I looking for?

I'd love to find a relationship with someone local but I don't mind where you live, as long as we both put in equal effort to try to see each other in person.

There's tons more to know about me but I really hope you'll take a few moments to message me so we can start getting to know each other. If you have questions or want more info on any aspect of this post please feel free to ask. I really hope to hear from you. :)

Here is what NOT to do:

Do not message me if I will need to drive the ENTIRE conversation. It should be an even effort. You will never be the only one driving. I put in a whole heck of a lot of effort.

Do not message me if disabilities bother you. Yes I have one. But I also have a job.

Do not message me if your first message to me is "Hi" "hello" or "How are you" and only that. I put effort in to my messages to you, I expect the same.

Do not message me if your messages are consistently one or two words and you don't know how to use emojis or show emotion in your messages.

Do not message me if after talking to me for any period of time and you are just going to up and disappear without saying a word. I understand some people do this to avoid getting called names or conflict but I am not like that. I have respect for you and I ask you do the same for me. If you feel this will not work, then say so. I'll be sad, sure, but I won't be mean to you. I’d rather know upfront so neither of us wastes time and we maintain respect for each other.

Do not message me if physical touch or affection bothers you. These are huge pieces of my personality.

Do not message me if "tell me about you please" results in "Well what do you want to know" this tells me you don't know yourself at all or what you want. In my opinion it means you need to step back and get to know and love yourself first.

I'm sorry if this seems too forward or stern or whatever, but respect and communication are huge to me. I am tired of people playing games.

BONUS POINTS

Bonus points if you have a praise kink and wear thigh highs.

Bonus points if you love Disney.

Bonus points if you can tell me (without Google) what Peter Pan's favorite place to eat out is.

I'm a good person who truly wants the best for you and wants to make you happy. I'm a big teddy bear. Please shoot me a message and grab my attention. If you have questions about anything in this post please ask. I’m happy to explain further. I'll give you a cookie if you do a heckin good message.

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.