Before we get started, the T is for Trans so you must be LGBTQ safe. I am trans nonbinary - aka avoid lady, girl, miss, ma'am, other femme terms. I'm also not a man, yuck. But sometimes I'm a naughty boi, and a good little cumslut, and a fucking cunt of a brat.

The dynamic:

I'm a brat that loves to be spoiled and the huge cock zaddy that spoils myself. The problem is that my tastes are now in a different economic bracket. Post divorce I did a bit too much retail therapy and need to be reeled back in, brought back into line, and reminded of the importance of discipline. I like to shop for soft and comfy clothes, I love fashion. I love going on vacation, getting massages, spa trips,

I am looking for a strict and creative disciplinarian with a very specific vibe. I want brutally tender. Here is a list of attributes I desire, the more you can check off the more likely you are to the vibe I am looking for.

Masc or Femme, queer and/or trans is preferable, I have no gender preference

Kink literate - Consent, Hygiene, Toys, Impact, Bondage, Aftercare

Big big - my smallest toy is 8 inches, I like to be stretched and filled

Ethical Non Monogamy - this is not exclusive, ownership, or a dating relationship. I am solo polyamorous.

SW friendly - No this isn't a scam. Yeah, I'm a sex worker too, I like it when people pay to see me

Rough - I love to be handled roughly, spanked, grabbed, tied, paddled, fucked, etc.

Soft - my kink is praise, worship my body, praise my ability to take a brutal throat fuck, shower me with affirmations

Financially stable - there is a big money power dynamic, be money smart and shower with sweet gifts

HARD NO list is: age/incest/race play, degradation, humiliation, daddy/mommy, NSFW marks (face, neck, etc)

Hard YES list is: body hair, impact play, big and strong, bondage, smart, orgasm torture, good convo, praise, nice hands, squirting, 420, soothing voice, massage

if this interests you and you think you have enough of the list above check me out and send me a message with the following:

Hard N/Y lists

What you offer (on/off the list above)

Self intro with fav emoji

A gift/surprise you would give me