I am a married white male in an open ENM poly relationship. 6'2", 325 pounds. I exercise and work out regularly and have been shedding pounds like crazy. Workwise, I'm in IT but my true passion is playing the piano and singing. I have kids and I'm not looking to have any more nor find another parent for them. As for activities, I enjoy karaoke, going to the movies or snuggling up at home on the couch so we can distract each other from the movie 😈. I also like going to live concerts (classical, music theater, rock, etc.) and getting lost in museums and libraries. Being 48 with kids, I have dad jokes so be ready with your worst. I like to be active, such as golfing, hiking, walking, etc.. Next year, I plan on getting my motorcycle certification and buying a motorcycle. I am also fully vaxxed and boosted.

Looking to solo-date. My wife might be interested in meeting you, but she won't be involved. My desire is for a long-term friendship leading to a possible lasting relationship. I'd really like to get to know someone and let things develop within our own comfort levels. I am not in a huge rush for intimacy and find I am demisexual. I am also heteroflexible, but am only looking for women at this time. Overall, I'd like to meet someone intelligent with a good head on their shoulders and a good sense of humor about it.

I'd really like to find someone who is getting into being active and getting healthier. I've most recently lost over 50 pounds and am very dedicated to being healthy overall. I still have a lot of weight to lose (goodbye dad bod) but I feel so much better than I have in a long time. I love to walk or hike and just recently got a set of dumbbells to hopefully get a pair of "guns". I would love to share in these activities with someone who is going through the same thing.

When you respond, give me some details. Short, low-effort responses most likely will be ignored. Effort needs to be made on both our parts. And if we're not feeling it after a few, it's OK to say so. Let's be adults here. I'm not going to be weird about it as I'm not looking to make something happen that isn't mutually agreed upon.