hi if you read my post history you might think i’m unhinged and that’s partially true. i just went through a horrible horrible break up (ask me for details, i’m an oversharing open book)

here are all the negatives about me so we don’t waste each other’s time: - i’m not childfree but i’m not a fundie trying to have 20 bio kids either. i’m fine with not having any since i already take care of my niece

• i’m a fat (yes, real fat) black girl. no i’m not “pudgy/chubby” fat. i’m like a 24/26 dress size. i’m not the fashion nova curve, fake plus size model shape either. i’m all boobs, arms and belly with no booty. like my body is giving industrial deep freezer. hope you like girls who look like a capital Y from the back! i say this because i have a relatively slim face and i don’t want anybody to say i surprised or fatfished them.

• i have BPD and i am in therapy for it. i don’t like the term “quiet BPD” but that’s more like me; i don’t blow up on people and i keep all of my jealousy/resentment/whatever other negative emotions inside until i reach a breaking point. i hate conflicts and arguing.

anyways, to summarize i’m not conventionally attractive and i don’t expect you to be either! weird looking mfs have the best personalities. more about me: i’m almost done with college, i like anime (but definitely not in weeb territory), i’m fairly progressive politically (pro-life men disgust me), and i prefer cats to dogs. as for vices, i like wine and edibles. i turn 21 this summer WOOOOO!!!

i also have a slight preference for other people of color, especially other black people. i prefer guys a smidge older than me (23 ) but 20 is okay too. if you read this all the way through, tell me my dress size with the word “soup” in reddit chat. also happy to move things over to discord!