Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Community Safety
We are here to keep the community safe. Racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, ignorance, and transphobia are not tolerated in this subreddit, you will be banned.
Exchanges For Goods & Money
Exchanges for money, goods, or services, are strictly prohibited. This includes. and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, offers for free trips, lessons, tutoring, webpage design, gaming, cam performances, etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Contact the mods for clarification or questions.
SPAM Policy
No SPAM is allowed. SPAM includes advertising of any kind other than a personal ad.
You are allowed to post to the subreddit once, and only once, per Week. This includes deletes and resubmits for any reason other than automod removal upon initial posting (not edits). This is to prevent users from trying to game the algorithm reddit uses to stick on the front page of the subreddit. First frequency offense will earn a minimum 24-hour ban, additional offenses will earn longer bans.
NSFW Posts
If you want to make an NSFW post then tag it properly and be respectful. No fetishizing someone because of their race/ No Kink posts/ No hookup posts. Remember there is a difference between fetish and preference. Preference meaning would like to have, while fetish meaning must have. Remember this and you are good to go. If you want that stuff, please post it on the appropriate subs since they cater to that sort of thing since we're trying separate from the porn.
We're here to date, not fuck.
Move On
If you happen to see a post you disagree with we always advise you to move on, providing the post does not break subreddit rules (if it does, report/contact us). Engaging the poster and bickering back and forth usually gets both accounts banned because it turns into a flame war.
Note: normal discourse/discussion is fine and encouraged, openly flaming and attacking is not.
Post Requirements
Accounts must have 10+ karma and be 48+ hours old to participate. Content must be primarily English. These requirements work together to reduce SPAM and catfishing. Post titles must include the author's true, exact age at the time of posting. Post titles must include at least the author’s time zone, but ideally also a geographic location no less specific than country. Adding "/Anywhere" or "/Online" after your location is acceptable to indicate to readers that you’re seeking outside your area.
Low Effort Posts
Low effort posts including, but are not limited to, posts with no body will be removed at moderator discretion. We're here to flirt, meet people, date, and converse. Act and post accordingly.
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