Honestly, I can't really complain about how well 2025 is going so far. I'm a much better place, having a job I enjoy, I enjoy how stable, though modest my life is as of now 😁
I got the amazing circle of friends I need, all I really feel like I need is that special person. Someone to share all the good things with, and all the bad things with.
Anything from those small victories in a day, to the days (hopefully few and far between), where it's a bit rough.
So that's why I am hoping to at least try and find here, and just see where it goes! Let's start talking here, and hopefully it evolves into meeting up, and then evolves from there! 😊
A quick little list of pros and cons when it comes to me.
Negative
- An overthinker
- No interest in having kids (putting it as a negative, since many aspire to have kids, I just don't envision them in my life)
- Can come off as too enthusiastic
- A people pleaser
Positives
- Complimentary and supportive
- An open minded and naturally curious person
- Super enthusiastic
- Always aiming to be positive
- Putting someones needs before my own
- Honest
Those are just some quick bullet points, besides that I'd describe myself as a very ambivert person. When at work I can be very social, and usually the first to grab a task and just get it done. When at home, or out in public, I tend to be a bit more reserved, and I can definitely feel more like a homebody. Though going to the cinema is always great, and I'm always up for going out to have a drink.
Besides that, I'd say I'm a classical looking Danish guy, a bit tallish, pale and on the average side of looks, though always trying to improve what can be improved.
So what am I looking for?
I don't like making a long list of things I am searching for, because it can be a wide definition of the person I am looking for. It's more about the core values, and then the rest is just icing on the cake.
Here's the core things of what I am looking for in a partner:
- Supportive and caring, uses words of affirmation
- Open minded, someone who can talk about everything, but that doesn't mean everything has to be discussed (I hope this makes sense, if not I'll gladly elaborate!) 😅
- Someone who can be a tiny bit deviant in the bedroom, or open minded at least!
- A person who can enjoys just the presence of each other
- 25 years old (it would be weird speaking to someone much younger than me, since we would just be in completely different phases in life)
- Someone who is emotionally available
- Lives in a Europe (so we could potentially meet up)
That's a mini check-list, and the rest really is just open for discussions! I like to keep an open minded, cause sometimes you come along, and try something new, and you think to yourself "How come nobody told me about this?!".
I'm super open minded when it comes to races, I have a weakness for foreign women, and find women of colour very attractive, however it isn't a requirement, just a small preference.
Besides that, let's just talk and see where it goes. I've tried to put myself out there, now I just hope someone reads this and thinks "You know what... Why not give it a shot?"
A little bit of enthusiasm would be great, cause a boring message like "hi I am X" is kinda boring. Maybe share an unconventional thought you've had today?
I really am looking forward to hear from you!
Best regards P
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