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46 [M4F] Why I’m single in Oregon.
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Ok_Butterscotch_756 is a male age 46 looking for a female in Oregon
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I have panic disorder with agoraphobia. It makes travel nearly impossible without debilitating medication.

I have some social anxiety which makes it hard for me to answer the phone or make phone calls. It’s not impossible, but I need work up to it slowly.

Because of these things, I’m unable to work anymore, and earn money to support a family. I qualify for disability but it’s not enough to live on my own. So I live with my brother and his family. They’re very supportive and I’m super grateful that I have been a part of helping raise my nieces and nephew. While I feel very fortunate to have a loving family, it’s not quite the same as the love of a partner. Right?

I guess the last thing would be that physically, I’m 5’6” short. I don’t have a complex. I like being my height, but truth is that most women want a tall man, and that’s totally okay. I feel sorry for guys who obsess over being short, like it’s a curse. I never had a problem with getting dates or gf’s when I wasn’t disabled. It’s a non-issue for me.

But nobody else can seem to look past these things and see the wonderful, loving, giving, funny, playful, respectful, and intelligent human being I am. So, I honestly feel like I’m always going to be alone.

I am Caucasian and totally open to all races. Please just be willing to openly share who you are. I’ve met a lot of people online that aren’t actually willing to share anything important about themselves. They’re vague and mistrustful. They pick and choose what questions to answer or not. I think a lot of people are more in love with just meeting someone new. Idk. But I want an actual relationship. With trust. Respect. Love.

Here’s some of my main interests…

Learning about nature and wildlife, Gardening, Collecting tiny cute things, Songwriting, Japanese Baseball, Movies and physical media, Anime, Pokémon, Nintendo, Graphic Novels, Marvel, Writing, Enamel pins, Stickers… and more.

Despite my disability, I love myself and I feel that I have a lot to offer in a relationship…

Why do you think you’re still single?

P.S. If you’re going to respond, please be prepared to start getting to know each other via messaging. However, I do not want an online only friendship. I’m looking to meet in person at some point in the future.

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