I’m a 34-year-old from Sydney, here for some genuine conversations with men who share similar values and interested in a long term relationship. Let’s keep things light, meaningful, and maybe even laugh a little along the way. I've had some pretty good conversations with other male users previously, so thought I'd give it another shot.

About me:

• Personality: Friendly, easygoing, honest, and sociable with a touch of ambivert vibes. (Yes, I'm one of those rare gems on Reddit! Also, I’m just as charming IRL, this is me btw https://imgur.com/a/ZHsnUnw.)
• Education: University-educated and love diving into deep topics like hypotheticals. I've never been married or divorced, don't have kids yet (a unicorn, I know!).
• I'm neurotypical (again a rarity on Reddit)
• I've got no tattoos/piercings, I'm cleancut (but that don't mean I'm boring lol, just don't like needles)
• Fitness & health: Petite, fit, and active—gym is a big part of my routine (4-5 days a week)
• Non-nerdy: Not into gaming, anime, or any of that—sorry!
• Pet preference: I’m more of a dog person, though cats are cute from a distance.
• Politics & beliefs: I'm non-religious, progressive, and leaning left.
• Music taste: Indie pop, rock, blues, and folk vibes only—no heavy metal, hip hop, rap, country, or punk!
• My accent: it's the real deal and apparently sounds cute
• I'm a fan of interracial pairings! I like learning about people that are different to me and my culture, it's interesting.

What I’m looking for:

• Age: 30 - 39 is preferred only. I'm not comfortable with big age gaps so please don't message me if you're outside it.
• You're neurotypical please
• No tattoos/piercings (just not my vibe sorry!)
• I like smart, educated and emotionally intelligent guys (but not arrogant guys) because I like have deep conversations about everything
• Lifestyle: I don't have kids (but doesn't mean I'm kid free/DINK) I just don't want to be a co-parent/stepmother to your kids from a previous relationship, but I want kids of my own in the future
• Values: long term monogamy, integrity, a genuine connection, similar interests/goals and something ongoing are key
• Location: Sydney preferred/ but open to online (long distance only if it's with the right person then we can have genuine, serious discussion about it)
• No ghosting please (I am definitely guilty of doing that in the past but I am also honest and straightforward if I'm not feeling it so expect the same in return)

What matters to me:

• Physical and emotional connection: I value both and I'm all about that spark, but also someone who can actually carry a conversation. Please share a face pic with your message, so we’re not just shooting in the dark
• Low Effort Responses: If you’re just here to say "hi, how are you?"—I’m going to have to pass. I’m looking for deeper, meaningful chats. Hint: I like dad jokes, puns, word play and hypotheticals
• Please be genuinely single

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you! Let’s start with a fun, meaningful conversation and see where it takes us. Please DM if you're interested.