Hey there!

Okay, this might be a long intro so apologies in advance, but it might be worth it in the long run.

I'm a 39 year old man looking for a woman specifically in Bangalore, India interested in a long-term relationship (bonus points if you're east asian or from the north east of India). Hopefully that's you and you're still reading so, here's a few facts about myself:

• I'm 5'5" with a medium build, and prefer to spend 1 on 1 time with my woman. In groups of 3 or more, I tend to be quiet but talkative with smaller groups unless I know everyone individually
• I'm a very protective person and take the responsibility of caring for someone very seriously
• I've been hurt in the past by a few who were unfaithful and I'm not interested in a repeat of that. Loyalty, and honesty are massive green flags
• My love languages are physical touch and acts of service and gift giving but it doesn't come overnight obviously.
• I'm emotionally a lot to handle sometimes, and other times cold. Not something I'm proud of but when I'm there, I'm all in. I don't mind changing that but it's got to be for someone who helps me want to want it.

With regards to the kind of woman I'm looking for, here are a few things:

• Love to talk and communicate, love when I check in on you, and love being told what to do and wear.
• Eager to learn by being curious, and open to experimentation are important factors and don't mind it if I get strict sometimes, especially when it's for your own wellbeing
• Someone who's smart and independent in front of other people, but loves to be loved and cared for when we're together. Dependent but not co-dependent if you can relate.
• You're looking for something long term, and open to eventually moving in together. So something IRL is key.
• A hopeless romantic and love being a clingy, a little silly and not flighty. You appreciate the little thoughtful things, over the grand gestures. Especially love a good cuddle after a shitty day.
• You're emotionally available and borderline needy, but willing to wait for me to show you how I feel everyday. Hopefully, you're willing to help me break out of my cycles and keep you emotionally fed consistently.

We'd obviously get along if our interests in the bedroom match. If we get comfortable enough, I'd be open to extending some of them beyond the bedroom, if that's a goal we're both comfortable obviously.

If any of this describes what you're looking for, I'd love to hear from you. Maybe with a little something to kick start the conversation, or even taking the lead.