Basically, idk wtf is wrong with me. Am I just THAT ugly that nobody See's me fit for a relationship? Is it a matter of race? Or is it something personal? I don't think it's the latter because I've had the best conversations with people, and they genuinely seem interested, but when I tell them I'm black or send them a pic when they ask for it, they either just ghost me or stop replying like they did before. It has obviously taken a huge toll on my mental health and self image. The thing is that when I tell people about me, I don't seem black ( I don't mean that in a bad way)It's in the way I talk too. I've grown up in a place where there weren't so many people of my race, so my hobbies and characteristics are not the ones you'd think Belong to a black guy.(Again, I'm not saying black people have specific hobbies and characteristics, I'm addressing the stereotypes) For example, I write Alot, my music taste isn't the type of music you'd picture someone like me listening to, I cook alot, I quite enjoy it, and I bike alot. I've had instances where someone would come up and talk to me, but when I took of my helmet, or removed my screen, I could see the disappointed in they're eyes. Like I don't have a problem with being black, it's just that I'm not what people expect when they imagine a biker that's into books and prefers long walks in the evening. PS. I didn't mean to trigger anyone, just want your honest opinions. Dm me if you want to see my face, don't want to post it here, thanks๐
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