So I'm 36m I'm BHM which means big handsome man (haha) I weigh around 159kgs. Was a carer for a family member for a number of years. I'm looking to lose my weight I gained from anxiety of that time period.

I would prefer to meet a thin slim petite white or east Asian girl that enjoys that I'm big but isn't a feeder and would be supportive to me to lose weight but likes me at every size. Mango

I think a woman that enjoys the contrast of a big daddy type of person and thin slim person is quite intimate and cuddly like Totoro.

I offer friendship first and if we get to know each other our values, desires compatibilities first then maybe we can get married.

Preference is that you are aged between 20-33

These are all preferences not deal breakers.

If interested and in the UK message me with the name of the fruit in my post so I have some ideas that you're thoughtful and interested in meeting up.

We would then do a voice call, then a videocall and arrange for a place to meet for a tea or something.