About Me:

Hey, I’m Ven, 35, Indian. But before you jump to conclusions, let me clear that up. Sure, I was born in India, but that’s where the usual stops.

I'm a liberal, progressive guy and absolutely not into the traditional, patriarchal, gender roles stuff you might expect, due to my toxic culture.

I’m an avid women's rights supporter, an LGBTQ ally, and an atheist who’s totally against outdated Indian culture and society.

I’ve got a sharp wit and love to laugh. Personality-wise, I’m an INTJ-T—thoughtful, empathetic, and always down for deep conversations. I also have ADHD, but it’s well-managed and adds some extra energy to my life. Mental health is super important to me; therapy has been a game-changer. If astrology matters to you, I’m an Aries Sun, Leo Moon, and Virgo Rising.

Professionally, I’m in cybersecurity working and living in US/UK and Indian timezones, working from home in India.

My Interests:

• Music: My taste spans rock, metal, pop, R&B, blues, jazz, international music, and the golden hits of the '90s and 2000s. Some of my favorite bands? Metallica, AC/DC, and Linkin Park.

• Movies: I’m into horror, thrillers, historical dramas, romantic comedies, and sci-fi. Whether it's something scary or thought-provoking, I’m all in.

• TV Shows: I dig adult humor, fantasy, historical fantasy, and crime scene investigations.

• Cartoons & Anime: I have a soft spot for '90s Cartoon Network and some select anime series.

• Art: Painting is a big part of my life. Check out some of my work.

• Cooking: Cooking is my creative therapy, and I love sharing good food with the people I care about. Here’s a peek at what I make.

• Cats: I’m a huge cat lover and spend a lot of time taking care of strays. Meet my cats. and more of them.

More About Me:

I’m an extroverted introvert who values deep connections. I’m bald, bearded, 5'10", and working on my fitness. Here’s what I look like.

I am seeking a connect with good communication, their own thoughts, career oriented, having their own passions, hobbies and interests. Bold, funny, intelligent and critical thinking. A connect which won't ghost and would let me know if things don't work out.

If you’re looking for a real connection with someone who defies expectations, values authenticity, and is unapologetically himself, let’s connect.