Hi there, I’m LilacDewdrops!

I’ve just turned 30 and am excited to embark on this new chapter of my life. I’m looking for someone special who shares my desire for a meaningful and romantic relationship.

Having lived in LA my entire life, I often feel like this city is a small island filled with palm trees and beautiful people, yet it can sometimes feel a bit lonely. Dating in LA has its challenges, and I’ve always wondered who out there might be the right match for me.

While I’m content being on my own, I’ve always dreamed of sharing my life with someone—someone I can wake up to in their arms, share the details of my day with, and find joy in the little moments together.

I lead a mostly healthy lifestyle—no soda, smoking, or drugs for me. I’ve also cut back on drinking since my tolerance has changed over the years. I’m no longer the party animal I was in my 20s! I drink plenty of water, enjoy early meals, and prefer quieter settings over the nightlife scene. I love places where I can have meaningful conversations without shouting over the noise. In many ways, I’m an old soul who cherishes peaceful environments and comfy spots to relax.

Politically, I lean towards the middle and prefer to avoid extreme rhetoric. I believe everyone should be free to live their lives as long as they aren’t harming others or themselves. I’m not particularly religious, but I value kindness, understanding, and mutual respect above all.

I’ve never been married and don’t have children. I currently work as a babysitter for a wonderful family and also at a daycare center. I’m considering a career in teaching or writing. Outside of work, I enjoy writing, working on my novel and screenplay, drawing, listening to synthwave music, and watching 80s/90s films. Coastal drives are one of my favorite ways to unwind and clear my mind. Living in Brentwood, Los Angeles, I’m lucky to be near some beautiful coastal scenery.

I’m looking for a relationship that’s happy, cute, and sweet—one where we can enjoy the simple things in life together. Whether it’s wiping lipstick from your cheek after a kiss or talking until dawn, I want to create those special moments with someone. I hope we’re on the same page about marriage and kids—imagining ourselves as the kind of parents who sing along to pop songs from the 2010s and lovingly embarrass our future kids.

Tone matters to me, so I ask that we keep our conversations respectful and kind. There’s a real person on the other side of the screen! Physical attraction and chemistry are important, so let’s see if we have that spark and go from there. If we connect well, I’m open to moving our conversations to WhatsApp or traditional texting. I value meaningful discussions and would love to get to know each other on a deeper level. I’m looking for a relationship where we can realistically be part of each other’s lives and build something lasting together.

About You:

• Age Range: 28-37
• Employment: Employed and stable
• Height: 5'10" or taller
• Build: Slim/fit/lean
• Gender: Cisgender male; straight
• Lifestyle: Child-free, emotionally available, non-smoker (including no cigarettes, weed, cigars, or vapes), drug-free (including past use of edibles, molly, coke, etc.). Drinking is okay as long as it’s not excessive.
• Relationship Goals: Seeking a long-term (monogamous) relationship
• Past Relationships: Not in contact with exes—looking for someone who has moved on from past relationships and is focused on the future.
• Qualities: Sane, mature, respectful, and single

Preferences:

• Location: Based in Los Angeles or within a 25-35 mile radius, California, or within the US/Canada preferred. International connections are welcome but may present some challenges.
• Communication: Open to meeting in person, video calls, phone calls, and texting (WhatsApp or traditional). I also enjoy “Good morning” and “Goodnight” texts and GIFs—they’re my love language!
• Consistency & Communication: I value clear and open communication. If you lose interest, a straightforward message is appreciated so we can move on respectfully. I would do the same. It’s fine if you’re no longer interested, but please be an adult and say something.
• Emotional Readiness: Please be emotionally stable and ready for a committed relationship.

Interests:

• Favorite Films: Dogfight (1991), Secret Admirer (1985), Stand By Me (1986), Ghost (1990), Career Opportunities (1991)
• Favorite Songs: “Sunset” by The Midnight, “Summer Eyes” by Coastal

If you’re a responsible, emotionally stable adult seeking a meaningful connection and share similar interests and values, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we can build something special together!

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