Hey, I’m Ven—35 single and happily childfree. I’m looking for a long-term, serious relationship with someone who’s on the same wavelength—liberal, driven, childfree, body positive and ready for something real and long-term.

A Bit About Me:

I’m Indian by birth, but my way of thinking and living is totally Western. Not an ounce of misogynistic patriarchal traditional regressive religious conservative thinking in me.

I’m big on progressive values—feminism, LGBTQ rights, and I’m an atheist. I hate the concept of arranged marriages of Indian culture. The concept encourages oppression against a woman's agency to choose her partner, thus further more strengthens patriarchal society and progeny. Hence my reason to be single till date and not give in to that awful system.

I’ve got a quick wit and love to crack jokes, so if you enjoy a good laugh, we’ll get along great. I’m an INTJ-T personality type—thoughtful, empathetic, and always down for deep conversations. I’ve got ADHD, but it’s well-managed, and I embrace the energy it brings to my life.

Mental wellness is super important to me; therapy has been a game-changer. Oh, and if astrology’s your thing, I’m an Aries Sun, Leo Moon, and Virgo Rising.

I work in cybersecurity with a flexible schedule that flips between US/UK and Indian timezones. Physically located in India but ready to travel if we click and start a relationship.

When I’m not in tech mode, you’ll find me painting, diving into history, or brushing up on one of the six Indian languages I speak (plus English) and I am learning Spanish in dualingo.

What I’m Into:

• Art: Painting is a big part of my life. You can check out some of my work here.
• Cooking: Cooking is my creative therapy, and I love sharing good food with the people I care about. Take a look at what I whip up.
• Cats: I’m a huge cat lover and spend a lot of time taking care of strays. Meet my cats and here too.

More About Me:

I’m an extroverted introvert who loves to chat and connect on a deep level.

I prefer plus size women as my partners as I appreciate the charm and radiance they put out, both in their personality and their physicality.

Physically, I’m bald, bearded, 5'10", and working on my fitness. Wanna see what I look like? Here’s a pic.

I’m into adventurous and horror movies, and my music taste is all over the place—rock, metal, EDM, you name it. If you’re looking for a genuine connection with a guy who’s thoughtful, funny, and real, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s see where this could lead.