Hello there! So glad you clicked on my post! My name is Joshua I'm 28! Let's get down to business shall we!

I am a bit of a nerd ( in the best ways ). I'm also a empath. I love to watch movies, cook ( I swear my by sous vide), and be outdoors. I have a very golden retriever like energy. I am also a very caring person and I will never leave you on read.

I am a switch but I do lean more sub.

I am all about putting in as much energy as I can into a relationship with someone.

What I am looking for? So I do have a thing for older women (my last partner was in her 40's, just to drive home the fact that I mean older is my preference) and goths (always have and probably always will). I am overall looking for a gentle femdom kind of relationship. I am open to try new things and work on myself in different aspects, however I do have a nervous and anxious side that comes out from time to time. I just need some support and some guidance when it comes to that.

I am not in this for all sexual reasons. I like to build a relationship and build off of that. However I do have my moments but I'm very respectful when it comes to that dynamic.

I'm looking for a true connection, which takes effort. Please don't just send me hey or hello as an opener. That can get you overlooked. Instead tell me something that makes you happy, your favorite movie, or even a recipe you enjoy making.

Kink wise, I like many things and I'm open to exploring more. One thing I am not into is humiliation, so please keep that in mind. I enjoy praise and encouragement. I also enjoy pup play, so if you were into that, it would be incredible. Even if you have never tried it, being willing to explore things goes a long way.

Also please be able to verify yourself with a picture. It doesn't need to be the first message you send but at some point verification is a must.