Life is like walking a tightrope—balancing work, family, and everything in between. Sometimes, you crave a change of pace, a breath of fresh air, or simply someone who truly understands. There are moments when you need to vent, times when lively conversations are what you're after. Sometimes you want someone to have "lively" conversations.

That’s where you come in. I’m seeking a unique connection with a woman aged 35-50 who, like me, is happily married with older kids and knows the juggle of family life. I admire intelligence, humor, and curiosity, and I’m drawn to someone who loves deep conversations and exploring new ideas.

I’m interested in connecting with women who prioritize fitness and take care of themselves. (If you're in decent shape and you think I am otherwise mistaken, lets chat about it.) Meaningful conversations matter to me; I value engaging discussions and prefer someone who contributes more than one-word answers like "OK, LOL 😂, Yes." Someone who is on Reddit, and chats frequently. (Been ghosted a few times, so I get that feeling that someone is ghosting me when they don't reply back soon.)

About me, I’ve been globe-trotting and soaking in new experiences. Just got back from Italy, and I'm off to NYC, SF, and Paris in the next few months. When I’m not traveling, you’ll find me binge-watching shows and movies. I also started to get into fitness. (Been working out, but now trying to get into triathlon shape.) Also an avid "cake-eater". (I work from home, but travel for work.)

I’m a tech enthusiast—into AI, music, and art. When I’m not geeking out, I’m in the kitchen experimenting with spicy Indian dishes or Caribbean cuisine. Curried Beef and Butter Chicken are my current obsessions. Music? It’s the soundtrack of my life, from Miles Davis to ATCQ to Janet Jackson to New Order. Growing up in the 80s means I have a diverse taste in music.

I'm not looking to change anyone's situation but rather hoping to find someone to connect with on a deeper level. (If you're involved in selling or OnlyFans, sorry, not interested.)

So, if you're looking for some extra frosting for that cake and up for some relaxed online banter, feel free to drop me a message.