Hey!

I'm looking for an emotional fluffer, and eventually someone to have a relationship with. I want someone whom I can talk to daily and get to know more, connect, and maybe even more.

Basically, a guy who can emotionally fluff me up and he'd need and want it as well. I am very much open to a relationship, it's time for me to be open to someone else taking care of me. Don't get me wrong, I'd reciprocate well, sometimes more than you ask for. I just never believed that someone would be willing and happy to make me happy.

Why would you want someone clingy?

It's because with clingy guys, being an emotional fluffer would never seem to be a chore. They enjoy doing it. They like providing attention as much as getting it. And they're very grateful for the smallest things, and the simplest gestures. I would never have to beg for the bare minimum.

If you're from the PH:

I'm usually up at night. I like the quiet time. So, expect late night conversations, late lunches. I'm up in the morning but I'll probably nod off because I'm gonna be up all night.

If you're not from the PH and you have to check timezones:

I can fit your sched, be -12 or -8 hours of a time difference. Since my bodyclock is flipped, and yeah, I keep my clock on 24HR setting.

I'm from the South of Manila, Philippines but I grew up in the East. Not too far south though. I am very open to having a long distance relationship.

I would love to have someone new to share memes with and the occasional ranting. Someone new to learn about and learn from. I enjoy intelligent conversations and conversations as if we're high as a kite. I'm quite horny too, so there are times I'd inject innuendos to conversations and I hope you can respond adequately.

Spontaneity is key. It'll be amazing if you're a great conversationalist.

ABOUT YOU: (Important stuff are in bold.)

● I really hope you're clingy. I would love that. Reason for that is, clingy people tend to focus their attention if they like someone, I need that. It's a low-effort thing for them. And I am glad to respond to what they bring to the table.

● It's okay if you're significantly younger or older, as long as you're not ageist.

● Totally fine if you won't send pics, since I don't think pictures would have any bearing to just talking over the phone. I'm just mainly asking for voice calls. I like it old school. I won't send you mine (my pics) unless I'm already comfortable to, so please refrain from asking me for some on the get-go. So no pressure, I don't need to know how you look like, I don't even care how you look like. I just want someone whom I can talk to. I appreciate the photo updates, photos of random stuff. I get to know you better that way. When we're both comfortable, exchanging photos of ourselves would come naturally.

● I won't judge you by your views on relationships, or if you're still confused about whatever/whomever you want in life, I won't have judgments towards you. I am open to whatever you have in store for me. I just want someone open. Someone whom I can be myself with.

ABOUT ME:

● My profile says a lot about me, so, you can check it out to get a gist of what you're about to delve into. Yes, I'm pretty sad right now, and I honestly just want someone to have while I transform my sadness in to something that could make someone's happiness. And eventually we can share that.

● Once you've seen my profile, it ain't all about s_x , I hope you know how to read between the lines. If my music taste matters, I can send you links to my playlists. The movies on my bio are the movies that best describe me and my life.

● I'm unhappy recently and I hope you're fine with me venting out about my life. It's quite dark, and I hope you're fine with that. I'm pretty broken, and honestly, this is my way of finding someone who would take care of me, because I am too exhausted from taking care of myself alone.

● I like voice calls. My voice is tolerable, I do voiceover work professionally. PLEASE DON'T ASK ME FOR SAMPLES. I find that tad annoying. I'm not demanding, just have the decency to inform me if you're unavailable.

● For those who want to know how I look like: I'm not a looker. Let's leave it at that. I have pics on my TG account, but they're discreet. I prefer someone who starts off with conversations than with photos.

Updating this part: I may look good to others, I may not look good to you. It's just that I exist not to please anyone so don't be disappointed if I ain't the one you expect because I'm not here to please you. I'm not fugly. I'm not thin. I'm not fat. I have a mix of Chinese-Spanish traits. Figure it out yourself if you really wanna know how I look like.

● I write for a living (and NO, I don't write novels, short stories, or poetry, or fiction in general). Used to work in media, now I'm in a related field.

● I had to add this, coz recently I've had guys who had misinterpreted how I am. So I'm innately sweet, not really clingy please don't misinterpret how I would treat you as "real feelings" (yet). I would inform you if they're real or not. If you do catch feelings, tell me. I won't be cruel to you. I am very open to falling in love, and when I do, I am yours.

Again, this is just me wanting to turn the sadness that I'm in into someone's happiness-- to be needed, appreciated, and cared for, and I hope he reciprocates. I am tired of begging for affection.

Someone who would want to enjoy the feel-good perks of having a relationship without being completely tied up at first, but open to having a real relationship if and when it progresses.

I'm more open to be intimate, but not s_xual--if you get my drift, I'm open to aural pleasure, I like that a LOT.

Please don't start the conversation with anything s_xual, I'd appreciate that A LOT. The "we can talk about anything" isn't my consent for you to say literally anything to me. I hope you get what I mean.

I've encountered people who do not practice proper etiquette and just blabbed their way into starting a conversation with me with no regard if what they're saying is TOO INVASIVE or INTRUSIVE to start off, OFFENSIVE, or just downright UNFILTERED. AGAIN, do not take "we can talk about anything" literally. It's not a pass to leave your manners outside the door.

I hope I find people who are sensible and interesting to talk to. As regularly as possible, since I struggle with object permanence with those people who just say "hi" when they want to. :)

I prefer intros other than "hi", "hey", "hello". Please don't be uncouth.

This post might be long but if you had the time to read it, I appreciate that you're keen with details.

These aren't really "requirements", I'm not picky. I'm just saying in a more elaborate manner: I hope you're a good person.

PS. Don't mind the downvotes if there are any, my ex tends to downvote on my r4r posts. He really does.

I prefer to use TG, I don't have Discord or Snap. Sorry.

See you in a bit.