I'm Spirit, southeast asian female from Indonesia. Going to graduate from high school and continue my higher education soon. My interests are worldbuilding, writing, brainstorming ideas, and listening to music (dreampop and post rock are my jam 🤘)

Using this subreddit to help me move on from someone. He decides to ghost me after one month of connection. The attention seeds he implanted in me throughout the month grow up to be emotional attachment. I want to get over this emotional attachment to him so bad. Although he ghosted me, I still want some explanation from him. Should I reach out to him again?

Some things I learned from our brief relationship is that communication is important. Don't hide the fact that you're losing interest or found someone else. You'll just confuse the other party. Don't hesitate to express your doubts and concerns with your partner to make the relationship work. If you don't care, at least have the balls to tell them that you don't want to maintain the relationship to avoid further confusion. Don't just ignore them. I appreciate honest people. Save me from waste of mental energy figuring out why someone is distant. All I want is closure. And don't make promises that you can't keep. It hurts when hopes and promises aren't fulfilled.

I'm looking for someone physically similar to him which is white to help me move on from him. Generally, all races are welcome <3 I've met amazing guys online and I'm sure you will be one of them ❤️

Surprising thing about me, loneliness made me behave like a polyamorous. I'll have feelings for every one of you who'll give me attention for more than one day. The most dedicated one will most definitely have my utmost attention.

If we're well connected, I'd love to meet up in person sometime.

Will you be the person I'll think about listening to Valentine by Laufey?