Hi Reddit,

I’m 36, 5’3, brown, cute, curvy, liberal, female in SoCal and I am looking for a thoughtful and communicative guy who wants a serious relationship and eventually a couple of kids. Don’t worry, I’m not saying it’s gotta happen straight away but it’d be nice if we’re both serious about heading in that direction. Ideally you’re between 28 and 45. I’m professional, well educated, well traveled and definitely open to different cities in CA/west coast and internationally. I have a ton of points, so you know, I’m game if you are, but I don’t wanna be the only one making the effort. I actually like the idea of having 2 home bases but I’ve been in the situation before where Im the only one who travels and it gets old fast.

So I’ve tried this out one other time, with…differing results.. just to be fully transparent, I’m looking for a monogamous relationship of the wholesome variety.. the meet each other’s families, watch tv together, try this new recipe I found, give a 💩 about each other type of thing. There’s a lot of experiences, great and not so great coming down the pipeline for everyone (or maybe it’s happening now) and it’d be really nice to have someone there to share in that.

Doesn’t matter to me if you are divorced or if you have kids. But it does matter that you are single. I don’t kink shame, come as you are - I’ll participate in some of it, and I won’t in others or ideally we can compromise. It will 100% not work out tho if you are someone who doesn’t like to go down ;)

Definitely happy to trade photos fairly quick. Mutual attraction does matter, and I totally get that. Body type wise, id say I’m like a Brittney Spencer.

Message me and let’s see where this goes.