Hello. I'm A.S.

I enjoy spirited conversations, tea, long silences, rooftop gazing. I'm an introvert (not shy), I like to keep to myself most of the time although I maintain a small circle. I'm a cat person, but I suppose dogs are alright (as long as they are outside dogs) I do not like practical jokes; I think they tend to get out of hand. I enjoy mini adventures or "side quests" as some people call them. My best side quest is to find a thrift bookshop and just dig in. My first language is English, I know a bit of French too.

Right now, I'm going through a sort of transition phase and I can't really talk with the people in my life about it. I want someone to talk to about these changes, without judgment. I'd welcome some judgment, actually. I hear it's much easier to pour out yourself to a stranger; though I've never tested that theory.

Personality wise, I would say I'm easy to get along with once my walls are down. I can be argumentative, contrary but I value qualities like kindness and consider.

I enjoy voice chats, video chats when the time comes. I'm 5'11, brown eyes, brown skin (or cocoa, depending on who you ask), dark hair that's streaked in places. I work out, keep fit in my near old age 😄

What I'm seeking: a good listener with a sense of humour (above primary school, obviously), emotionally intelligent. Ideally age 25 - 35

What I'm offering: Listening ears, friendship (possibility of more, if you're open) Bonding over whatever interests we might share I also give very good advice , if you're looking for some.

If you're somewhat broody, looking to exchange bits of yourself to an internet stranger, then send me a message

Please ignore this message if you're looking for an online fling. ❌

If you made it this far, I'd like you to open with the last time you felt really nostalgic.