Hi. I'm a divorced, well established Black woman who is nerdy. I chose full retirement in my late 50s to have more time to just enjoy life.

I want to meet a mature single man, the closer to my age the better. (My son is 28. Near his age or younger is an absolute no!) I seek a gentleman who wants a long term relationship with a strong mature woman that includes:

-Hugs -Cuddles -Holding hands -Text messages that make us both smile -Date nights out/romantic evenings in -Voice calls/vid chats that make you sigh in comfort or shiver with need

Things I want: -Your time, attention and devotion -You sitting in a chair with me on your lap, while I whisper in your ear -Your eyes to light up when I walk in a room, knowing my eyes and smiles are just for you -old fashion courtesy/manners; open minded thinking and intellect -a best friend that I cannot keep my hands off

Things you want: -Attention from a real woman who will genuinely care for you -Praise when you've done well, encouragement after a rough day, respectful guidance if needed -A nurturing supportive presence in your life -Someone who knows what she wants and what she doesn't, and will tell you so you don't have to guess -A woman who will respect the man you are in the world and the good boy you are just for her -someone resilient who understands that anything meaningful takes hard work, commitment, good communication, room to mess up, own it, and forgive it (for real) to keep things moving forward

Things I need: -someone unattached (emotionally and legally) -someone masculine (doesn't mean you must be muscular) -someone well established in life who is not intimidated by a strong, intelligent, financially independent woman -someone comfortable with interracial dating (not someone who fetishizes it) -someone local to me or able to travel to me often (I have health issues that make it hard for me to travel solo. Happy to say more if we connect and see potential.) -someone with a sense of humor -someone who wants an actual relationship, not a dispenser of sexual acts

Things you need: This is for you to say, should you decide to message me.

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