Please don't message or 'shoot your shot' if we aren't looking for the same thing, you don't line up with what I want, or you're halfway across the country...or world. I'm also less inclined to respond to throwaway accounts. Trust me, I know what I want/need. 🙃

I'm seeking a genuine, nurturing companion. No idea if I want to call it a special friend, paramour, relationship, or cuddle buddy. I do know I want someone easy-going, and capable of in-depth conversation, headpats, snuggles!

I won't have much in common with sports fans or outdoorsy types though. 🤷🏾‍♀️

You are...

• 30-42 and Single

• Gamer. PC/Switch preferred but I have consoles collecting dust too. Not gonna forget about my DnD and tabletop gamers either as long as you're willing to teach me!

• Nearish South Central PA or drivable distance. Relocation is not an option for me. ❤️

• Have to be into BBW chicks. Obviously, because I'm...you know...BBW. 😁

• A nerd/geek/dweeb/loser/loner/introvert/clingy guy but still knows how to adult and have a conversation. Nothing better than having someone to nerd out with to movies, shows, games, collections.

• Needing a drinking, movie, events, supportive, cuddle buddy.

• A kind, friendly cuddlebug.

• Not looking for a hit and run or frack buddy. Definitely not looking for low effort folks. <<

A dill pickle bit about me...

I'm 5'8", single, educated, employed, potato of color, and a mom of one (also two kitties and 2 fishies). A complete introvert and socially awkward But! I am silly, quirky, friendly, barely annoying, I swear! I am pretty soft so protectors, nurtuters are right up my alley! Anxious little spoon by nature. ❤️ DDlg.

Hobbies, likes, and stuff include but not limited to: streams, vodka, cats, museums, reading, video games, crafts, live shows, art, ethnic foods, coloring. Liberal/left-leaning, LBGTQ friendly, animal lover.

Games: Mostly cozy single-player games but I wanna change this with the right person! I am currently playing FFXIV (Excalibur/Primal-WTM main), Minecraft, Stardew Valley, Dreamlight Valley.

Movies/shows: All about fandoms! Marvel and DC movies, anime, LOTR, Harry Potter (Ravenclaw FTW), vampires, fantasy, horror, thriller. Not a big fan of comedy...or peanut butter.

I will ask for a bite of your food. I will curl up against you like a cat while we watch The Sandman for the third time. I'd be your biggest fan. I'd squee like you saved the world if you carried me through a savage trial on FFXIV I was struggling with...or surprised me with a juice box and gummy worms. It sure would be nice to find that needle in a berry large haystack.

If you got through this, and it actually matches you: yay! Send me a message and tell me about yourself if you think we'd get on 🧁