So here goes. I work a lot and I work towards keeping myself healthy each day. So if we're going to play, this needs to be a big part of your day as well. The fitness part. I'm about restarting professionally after fucking about for about the last 6 years and that's going to take priority over everything else. I'm definitely controlling and assertive in and out of play. It's just what it is and that also brings with it a fair amount of sadistic proclivities otherwise and sexually. It also helps if I vibe with an absolute masochist as well. This brings it down to vibes and banter and without it all I hear is robotic dronning into nothingness. So, you know, if you really want to get talking, then actually get talking. I'm tall enough and yeah, a few tattoos and the long hair. Also you know corrupting someone and being all obviously manipulative is rather fun. I just can't help myself. The work hours are odd and that makes the play and the routine also quite odd and that's something you've got to come to terms with. I'm not really big on toys but love the effect that everyday things have on the partners I'm with. I'm not particularly interested in the whole fucking aspect of it, rather the fucking up aspect before the fucking. I absolutely enjoy tears and bruises.

But here's the thing about it, I don't like a lot of hesitation. So if we vibe and set the rules down, then I expect those rules to be followed and the hesitation to be in the trash. Which brings me to my next point. A simple "stop" can also be a safe word with me. I take them rather seriously. And that safety is important every step of the way. I'd rather have you whimpering in tears through the happiness than lying through your teeth hoping to impress yourself and me. It just turns me off. Keep it real and we'll be fine.

This next bit is important. I'm not looking for a sugar. That's a deal breaker in every sense of the way. And I not looking for a pretend 50 shades sub. I am looking for someone whole can get herself off to fucking themselves up for the pleasure. We don't really need to step out as much and all of that. Sure, we could get something to drink or smoke but you've got to have your own life as well. Cos honestly I don't have that kind of time space to give. Also, misogyny has no space for me in the real world, although I can be in play.

Plus here's the thing, I am rather imaginative and depraved and I really do like to keep pushing through. So you know I can't really add any kinks or fetishes. But safe to say that gore and scat and permanent damage and violence and just toxic shit like that isn't really my scene. Besides that, all you have to do is ask.

Guess something a little something on the non sexual side of things. Really like classic rock and beer, I prefer biking over trains and planes and buses. Cook really well, although haven't in about 18 months. Clean freak. And yeah, I'm pretty talkative. Actually very very talkative.

Not really sure what else I could say. But there you have it. It's always 420 somewhere.