There are two kinds of reactions when you come across a post like this- "Yuck this guy is a freak" or ...

The second kind, is the reaction I am hoping from you.

While there are all sorts of people with their own flavour of dynamic with their partners,
Wholesome is what I am looking for.

While of course, there is kink, debauchery, power dynamics and more, I am hoping to add a bit of personal growth for both you and me during the tenure of our engagement in a dynamic.

There would be conversations, some calm and some turbulence, and by the time we are done with it, we both would have some good memories and a lot of personal growth accomplished.

Am I a freak? Maybe in some sexy ways, but should you be scared stepping into this? Maybe a little.
Just kidding. No, there is nothing to be scared about.

I am willing to put a lot of thought into it and spend the time in getting to know you, and then move ahead. I am not in a rush to get anywhere with the dynamic.

Lets chat a bit, get to know each other a little. Lets have some basic boundaries and get to know each other better. Once we have established basic comfort, we can move ahead towards building something deep and valuable, and oh, did I mention Kinky?

I know you have your own troubles, and you have your own assumptions and reservations about being a part of something like this, and that is okay. We can talk about it, I hope to know your goals and perspectives about personal and professional growth.

If you are new to this, and are still testing the waters, we could have a good conversations about humble beginnings.

I don't know what else should I write here. I have not written much about the kinky part because that is something I believe could be discussed better in individual conversations.

If you feel like you would want to talk, I would love to hear from you!