{Fetish post aimed at adult women with self-sabotage fantasies. If you not an adult or not female or not disturbingly aroused by fantasies where you are taken advantage of, this is not for you. If you don't match that description, move on.}

In Game Theory, a positive sum game is when both the players of the game gain something by the end of the game. The sum of their gains is greater than zero because they both got something out of it. Everyone is a winner, so to speak.

Sex is generally supposed to be a positive sum game. When two people get together in intimate ways they are both looking for gratification through the intimacy. While it might not always pan out so, on a general basis people engage in sex because they expect to enjoy it.

Conventional and sensible as this notion is, somewhere on the fringes lie people like you and I who don't subscribe to it. People like you and I fantasise about sex as a zero sum game.

Zero Sum is when the net gains of the two parties by the end of the game is zero. And that is when one party wins, and the other invariably loses. So, the winner wins at the expense of the loser.

Sex as a zero sum game is where the loser (that would be you) is taken advantage of and is used as a source of gratification and pleasure for the winner (yours truly).

While that sounds rather non-consensual, I certainly mean nothing of that sort. What I am looking for is a consenting loser. A grown woman who willingly shows up at my place to be taken advantage of.

You know the sort of woman you are when your mouth waters, and your pussy leaks, when you think of how unfair sex can be. You love it when you fall asleep and get penetrated in the middle of the night without being asked if you are ready. You dream about being pinned down and having your ass fingered while you beg me to stop. Or perhaps you are the obedient sort, which opens its mouth to receive penis, cum, and spit and thanks me for it.

When you message me, start with telling me you want to be a consenting loser. And tell me the kind of loser you want to be.

CNC is fun, and seemingly the popular kink of this sort. When you step into my house, I will grope you, forcibly strip you, subdue you and slap you till you start to behave, and then gentle fuck you whispering into your ear what a silly little loser you are.

On the other end of the spectrum, I am looking for a woman who finishes her work and comes straight to my place from her office for no reason other than to suck my dick. I will not strip you. I will not feel you up. I will barely talk to you even. I will let you in and settle down on my couch and whip out my phone to look at some reddit porn or profiles of insta sluts. While you, still in your office-wear looking like a respectable working professional, will kneel between my legs, undo my fly, and obediently service my dick, knowingly fully well that aside from the wetness of your mouth and the warm softness of your tongue and the tightness of your throat, you don't matter in this interaction at all.

I usually insist on aftercare. But if you prefer stewing in the shamefulness and humiliation of being a blowjob-only whore so you can go home and rub yourself wildly thinking of the kind of pathetic loser you are, be my guest.

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