Looking for a simple consistent and drama free friendship, with a simple woman. I know this is a kink/fetish exploring sub. But I'm looking for someone to explore with, someone I can vibe with and not be a one time thing.

Not my first rodeo with online dating. I've met & dated people from reddit & I'm aware of how things work here. I don't hesitate to talk about feelings and emotions. At the end of the day, this has to be mutually fun and shouldn't affect our life/peace of mind. I don't want to get involved in your personal life early on, I'll respect your privacy and not meddle with your business. If required, I can be the rubber duck who'd listen to you but I don't want to comment or advise you. But eventually when things get serious, I'm willing to be an active partner in crime. I've made several mistakes and I've learnt from every one of them. With all these experiences, I'm looking to take things slow and be extra cautious while getting started. After all we are adults and we should be accountable for our own decisions.

About me: 39 yo single guy. I’m divorced, no kids, 6’2 and beefy body type. I workout a couple of days a week and I’m healthy both physically and emotionally. I drink socially and not a smoker. I’m clean and disease free. I'm educated and well traveled. Very basic & simple in every way. Outside work, I read a little, watch a ton of shows and movies and enjoy driving so I go on frequent long drives.

I work in IT and my hours are flexible. I’m good at what I do and I’m a very ambitious guy. I’m looking for a slow start as friends with a woman with the hope of it leading to something serious. I’m very open, upfront and sex positive. I don't hesitate discussing sensitive topics like sex, feelings, family etc. I'm shamelessly honest and I'm not gonna list that down here. If we reach there, I’m happy to discuss it.

My career ambitions made me move & never let me settle. I’ll respect you as a person and your boundaries. I’ve clarity on what I’m looking for. I’m not looking to get involved emotionally on day 1. We can be friends & I’m looking to take things slow. I’m aware of myself and when things don't go well, I’ll discuss & call it off early rather than fucking up big time later. I’d appreciate the same from you as well.

I can verify myself and you should be too. I’m looking for someone over 30. The older the better, mature emotionally. Be healthy, clean and disease free. If you’re intrigued by this idea, DM with a short intro. Thanks for your time.