Don’t take this personally, but I’m not talking to you for your looks. I’m not really interested in your body or fucking it.

I don't want to fuck your pussy. What I want to fuck is your dignity.

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Your purpose, then, becomes to enhance my experience of masturbation.

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You can be a masturbatory aid. Use your mouth, tongue, face, tits, pussy and ass to get me off to my favourite porn even harder. Suck me off to Monica Bellucci. Make me cum to her. Swallow my tribute to her.

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We don’t need to pretend that you matter. You don’t have to. You can hide under the table. You don’t need to be seen. Just open your throat to penis. Read my groans and grunts. Go slow when I need to slow down. Try to deepthroat when I’m cumming. For the most part, rhythmically jerk me off to the women that actually matter.

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If that makes your stomach turn, you’re not wrong. It is indeed dehumanising to be an invisible, merely functional accessory in a sexual act. It is intensely humiliating to accept that the man you are intimately serving reserves his lust for other women - for you he has disregard and disrespect. Most women would vehemently refuse such an interaction. You should, too.

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But this post is for the woman who wants that anyway. The more unfair it is, the more humiliating and diminishing it is, the more she is turned on. This is rather important because this is what makes it different from just hiring a prostitute and abusing her. The experience is truly made when the woman wants it and is there completely out of her own need to be humiliated. It is even better when she is an outspoken feminist irl.

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The woman who wants that knows who she is. You have imagined yourself naked in a collar, crawling at the heels of a clothed man. You have imagined being a footstool for him while he enjoys a drink. You have imagined stripping away all your worth because it is numbing and therapeutic at the same time. If you didn't think of these before before, you have now, and you like it.

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Aftercare is essential. I prefer holding and being held. You can propose other forms of care.

Be adult. Be female. Be clear in consent.

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