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Why I am on this platform and not on any dating websites? I have tried to be on dating apps but it's not my cup of tea. People put a facade there and most of the people want a casual relationship or don't understand the meaning of emotional connection.
I am not much expressive about my feelings but I am trying to pen everything down today in hope that someone from here might understand me and try to connect with me.
This is a long shot but I hope to have a healthy and real relationship.
We don't know each other but maybe, one day we are going to be more than best friends. Right now, we are total strangers, we are unfamiliar with everything about each other but one day we could end up being together.
I want a forever love. I want to commit to someone who would never leave me. I want to have an emotional connection. I want to build something which has ability to last a lifetime. I am well aware of the fact that it will take time and effort to build such a connection and we have to start it with friendship.
I am happy. I don't want anyone to make me happy but a right person would add to my happiness.
A bit about myself :-
I have my life sorted. I am a student currently. Academically I am doing good and working hard towards the goals of my life.
I am from North part of India.
I am 5'6" tall.
I work out and I have an athletic body.
I love books. I try to read everyday. Sometimes, I write my own feelings in a journal which I maintain. I wear glasses. I have myopia.
I love to discuss topics in depth without arguing even if there is a disagreement.
I am an old school person. Emotional connection is important for me.
I get attached to anything that makes me feel alive. I am really scared because of my past experiences but I want someone with whom I can confide in and open up easily.
I am an atheist but I don't interfere in anyone's faith.
I don't smoke or drink.
People say that I am a man of few words but people who are close to me know that I can make silly jokes for hours and entertain them when I am in the right mood.
I am an introvert by nature.
I always try to be honest and sometimes I hurt people because of my honesty. I can't make up things to impress people.
I am an altruistic person. I trust and try to help everyone out. I have a habit that I can't say "No" to anyone who asks my help.
I don't get angry easily and I believe that if there is some issues in between two people, then they should try to communicate and try to solve them by talking instead of being angry and hurting each other.
I love cricket. I don't play anymore but I watch it a lot.
I listen music to motivate myself. I love any kind of music which soothes my soul.
I care about everyone around me. I don't hold grudges against anyone in family or friends even if they have done something bad against me.
What I seek from you?
Empathy, a good heart, communicative and honesty.
I want to talk on consistent basis regularly. By consistent, I mean even for like 10 minutes in a day even if we both are busy.
Relationship takes time to build and we both need to invest time in each other so, we could know each other well as understanding and communication are pillars of any relationship.
I want someone whom I can trust and share everything. I am tired of friends using me for their emotional benefits. I want that my feelings are being reciprocated for once in my life.
Age is not a bar.
If you come across this post, managed to read it completely and want to talk, then drop me a message. Let me know something about yourself, and let's take it from there. :)
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