Well, this is gonna be a long ass post so please bare with me.

In the recent times, I've seen quite a lot of good looking girls and believe me, I mean GOOD LOOKING GIRLS, falling for the wrong set of guys. Don't worry, I'm not judging anyone, everybody ofcourse has their own choice but, hinkle about it, does dating a good looking guy really makes ypu happy? Is it the pressure from the society that you're only dating a good looking guy rather than dating someone who's stable mentally and emotionally?

Most of the relationships that I'm seeing are now toxic. Everyone is just dating to seek validations, to show off or to get away from loneliness. Does a good looking guy, having no sense of life, just enjoying off of his parents money, no motives in life, super toxic and jealous, gaslighter and so much more give you any good?

I even have examples, recently I was out past midnight due to excessive work. Me and my friend stopped by to eat something before we head home. Here came a couple, again, the guy was super toxic with the girl, calling her names, hitting her for no good reason. He didn't seem to care about her and it felt like she's just being treated as an object. She was soooo pretty but I didn't want to indulge in their private matters. But it was sad to see that happen.

It just concerns me that why do you wanna date someone like that? Why don't you wanna choose your partners wisely? Why would anyone hesitate to cut off someone who's this toxic or mistreats you.

Even though I've never been in a relationship before but still it feels dumb to see what today's generation dating looks like. Do we not look for empathy, kindness, generosity, politeness, calmness and many such great personal traits now? A poor choice in a guy could make ypur life miserable but at the same time, if you'd date someone who's caring, understands ypur feelings, takes efforts, respects your thoughts, respects you, is kind and humble, wouldn't it be the best kind of relationship?

I'm not saying that everyone, including guys and girls, is like this, but, somewhere down in your heart, even you'd agree to some of points.

Well, it was a super long rant I guess but it was important to get this out here. Even if this post makes a positive impact to a few people, I'd be happy.

That being said, I wont say, I'm a Saint or anything but, I'm a great person to have around, I'm funny, kind, humble, calm and caring. Someone whose motivated to do some great deeds and achieve some great heights in life. I'm also good with managing money. I have so much to offer and can help ypu in many aspects of ypur life. Idk what to expect from this post but would love to have or find a good connection from here. That'll give me a chance to show you all the positives of a relationship :)

Even if we don't connect, as a girl, take my advice and choose your partner after considering a few things. Cut off toxic people, don't let your standards down, there are great people out there and you'll find them eventually.

Have a great time ahead!

Peace!