(I have divided this post in various parts with suitable headlines in bold, dive in. I sincerely hope we make it past the exchange of pleasantries and develop a meaningful connection. Please read it till the end. I have posted here before and received some really intriguing messages but nothing substantial happened out of it.)

Who I am: I'm 35, professionally gainfully employed , 5.10 of height and trying to live a very healthy lifestyle. I have been in the kink/bdsm lifestyle for over 12 years now. I don’t think I see my kink as a separate part of my existence. It’s who I am naturally. I exist somewhere in dichotomy and duality. Dichotomy that I’ve a professional established live where I’m a well functioning member of this society or I try to be. And, on the other hand, a personal life of which many of my close friends and kink partners are aware of but not everyone. Duality is the part where I have a personal and professional life that doesn’t intersect.

Who I am (but a little deeper): I'm the kind of person who likes vulnerability. I like the intensity that comes with honesty. I believe in mutual respect. Even when I'm degrading you, we both know there's a mutual respect for each other in our minds. I've been in the lifestyle for over ten years now and with pandemic, just like everyone, I focused on mental health first. I now think I'm ready to venture and train someone with all that I've got.

Who you are: You could be a lot of things and I can’t possibly include everything here but things that are important in dynamic like these - honesty, clear and complete communication, vulnerability, rawness and intensity are a must, I think. Just be self aware.

Kinks: My kinks include orgasm control, denial, edging, forced orgasm, sadism, cnc, rapeplay, free use, impact play, bladder control, primal, slave/slut training and many more.I don't force my kink on anyone and I respect consent. I just don't want to only be a dom but will prefer that you (my sub) and I talk beyond the dynamic as well. Mental stimulation is important or I believe things go stale.

What it means to me: I take my role as a daddy dom religiously and put all my heart into it. I am strict and at the same time, I'm also a human besides being a daddy dom. And I know exactly when to be caring and loving. It's a duality that I live with. This duality is a part of me and you'll see that this somehow helps me in being the best version of myself.

What I am looking for? (What you and I are looking for?): A connection. A dynamic. Some honesty. Some vulnerability. A lot of Intensity. An imaginative mind. Healthy libido. Rants. Sessions. Intellectual discourse. (As you can see I am not very demanding!!!)

How can you reach me? What do you need to write in your message?: You can either DM me or Initiate a chat with me. You can either put in some effort (as most post here say it) in your reply or you can just say HELLO and we will go from there. You can also share what you think about my username. I don't think Hellos are low effort though at least be ready to respond in a more detailed manner when I reach back. I understand to reach out to someone takes courage and that is never a low effort to me. I think that will be all and I will wrap it up. Adios.

p.s. I have been very clear of who I am and what I’m looking for. So please reach out if and only if you possess that clarity of mind yourself. I’ve received replies from people here who think they are into the fantasy of the whole dynamic but when it starts getting real people usually abandon or get cold feet. I’m sure your time and my time, both are precious and so is the emotional wavelength one has to employ while searching for something so vulnerable, so I request you to not waste time for either of us. Your experience or lack of it doesn’t bother me, what truly matters is your clarity and commitment. Lastly, please be of an appropriate age.

CONSENT, AFTERCARE AND COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING.

!lock