You know that feeling when youâre in a long-term relationship and youâre best friends with your partner, but the sex has dried up entirely? The occasional dry spell has stretched into weeks⌠then months⌠and have become years.
Thatâs the situation that I find myself in. Fortunately Iâm in an open relationship (no cheating here), so all hope is not lost! And so I turn to the internet in search of a like-minded deviant who can turn me on mentally as well as physically.
Me: the quiet, bookish type with an Addams Family vibe. I need to have a mental connection before sex. Iâve got a wicked sense of humour, am in reasonable shape, am hella kinky, and love reading, art, movies and music. Nerdy but alternative, no-nonsense and honest.
You: a non-smoking, no-drugs, dominant type on the Northside, preferably aged between 40-55(ish). Genuinely kinky (not just horny). Able to carry an intelligent conversation and interested in something ongoing.
Letâs talk and see where things go! Please include the word âcactusâ in your reply so I know youâve read the entire post. Pics on my profile. Low effort/one line replies will be ignored.
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