Hi, I usually don’t go looking for spicy things, but I figured I’d give it go. I’m a really sweet and kind person, I’m kinda quiet and shy but a lot of people tell me I make them feel safe, which is a bit of weird compliment but I love that I’m able to create a space where they can be themselves. I’d really like to find someone who creates that safe space for me as well, and the only time I’ve really felt it was with a dominant partner. I want to allow myself to be truly vulnerable with someone. I cannot tell you the deep appreciation I’ll have for you if that make this happen.

I’d like to be friends at least before anything happens, know that we can just hangout and have a good time without it getting spicy. I’m not a big fan of hookups or the culture around it, and I’m kinda tired of the whole casual thing, but I understand if something serious isn’t for you and I’m open with that, provided there’s clear communication, not just about good things, but if you feel like you want it to end at any stage please just tell me, yeah I might be sad about it, but it’s better than wondering, that’s the respect I give and it’s the respect I want in return.

About me, I’m a very open minded person, I love a weird deep argument where we respectfully challenge each others thoughts and ideas. I’m a massive nerd, Star Wars, marvel, lotr, I could talk about things from them for hours or quote every line.

I work full time, regular hours, I’m saving, I’m studying, I’m trying to be a bit better everyday.

I’m like 5’11 if it matters, curly long brown hair, brown eyes, stocky build, going back to the gym soon after a recent injury stopped me for a couple weeks.

I’m not perfect but I’ll accept you and all your flaws, hopefully you can accept mine too.

Send me a message if I sound a bit interesting to you and let’s chat.