Hello everyone!
With the Thanksgiving coming up and Christmas just right around the corner, I'm looking for a potential long-term partner to do some festive things together, go on cute dates and cozy up with some hot chocolate while we watch holiday moves/shows! You're welcome to come steal my hoodies too as it is getting cold outside!
I'm honestly sick of using dating apps, and wanted to try something new for a change! So, here I am! I am looking for a potential long-term partner and I want to see if I can meet someone on here instead! I’m hoping to meet someone who I can connect and vibe with! Down below is some stuff about me and what I’m looking for in a partner!
Before you do message me though please do try to read it all first! Please tell me about yourself and also include your favorite foods! DO NOT message me with just "Hi", "Hey", "How are you" or any kind of low effort message. I will not bother answering your message if you do that. Also I am strictly looking for females, if you are a male please do not bother messaging me
Here’s a little about myself:
- Age: 21
- Height: 5'10"
- Sexuality: Straight
- Gender: Male
- Ethnicity: Chinese American
- Location: New York City
- Zodiac: Aries
- MBTI/Enneagram: ESFP-T & 2w3
- Love Language: Quality Time & Physical Touch
- Occupation: Senior Student in Business School studying marketing
- Hobbies:
- I love watching all kinds of shows and movies ranging from Netflix/Hulu/Disney /HBO Max to kdramas and animes! I’m also a huge Star Wars, Harry Potter and MCU fan too!
- Favorite shows: Greys Anatomy, Brooklyn 99, The Office, Game of Thrones, The 100, Avatar the last air bender, Rick and Morty, The Walking Dead, Kim's Convenience, etc.
- Favorite anime: One Piece, Spy x Family, Shokugeki No soma, demon slayers, jujutsu kaisen, my hero academia, One punch man, attack on titans etc.
- Favorite Kdrama: Goblin, I’m not a robot, Crash landing on you, DOTS, Vincenzo etc.
- I'm a huge foodie! I love exploring all the restaurants and hidden spots in NYC especially to try out new places which includes dessert and boba spots too! My favorite foods usually start with Asian foods but I’m always open to trying new things!
- I love exploring the city and chilling with friends however I do like a balance of being out in the city and indoors at home.
- I’m a photographer that specializes in portrait and food photography! If you'd like to see some of my work please don't hesitate to ask me!
- I’m a gamer as well! I play games like LoL, TFT, Valorant, Destiny 2, overwatch 2, Minecraft, etc. but I also own consoles such as the switch! I have Animal crossing, Smash bros, overcooked 2, Pokémon sword and Mario kart and Mario odyssey on it. I do however have a PlayStation 5 too and play some games on it like the Spider-Man Games! I actually play league, valorant and tft the most though! Let's play some games together if you play!
- I really enjoy building different things especially Lego's, PC's and keyboards! Right before quarantine started, I decided to build my first gaming PC! No more of those pre-built ones! It was actually a lot of fun to build and a great learning experience as well. I ended up giving that pc to my sister and built a second and better gaming pc! If you'd like to hear the specs let me know! I also have a huge Lego collection too!
- I love watching all kinds of shows and movies ranging from Netflix/Hulu/Disney /HBO Max to kdramas and animes! I’m also a huge Star Wars, Harry Potter and MCU fan too!
Here are some Fun Facts about me!
- I’ve never been out of the country before but I would love to travel more one day! Especially around Asia like South Korea, China, & Japan!
- I was born on Friday the 13th! Spooky! (Shh I promise you I’m not cursed or anything like that)
- As an Asian growing up, you already know our parents made us play piano LOL I played piano for about 14 years and plus I also know how to play 3 other instruments too! Can you guess what they are?
- I’m a pet owner! I have a dog and 4 cats. (Videos and Photos will be provided upon request)
- Personality wise, my friends would describe me as someone who is open-minded, wholesome, sweet, easy to talk to, outgoing, empathetic, trustworthy, etc. I will however let my actions speak for itself though! I’m a great listener as well so if you want to rant/ vent out I’m always here to listen! Honestly though I’m a pretty open person overall so you’re always welcome to ask me any questions you wish to know!
Here is who and what I am looking for:
- Someone to genuinely vibe & connect with together. I’m an extrovert and with the right person our conversations will be never ending. I love talking and getting to know someone but I also don't want to be the only one doing all the talking. I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate the same amount of time, effort and energy I put in.
- Someone who can be both my best friend and my partner. I want to be with someone where we could joke around and be goofy together but also be serious and vulnerable at the same time. It's always fun and nice to have those kind of inside jokes between us and also someone who I can share funny memes and TikToks with that reminds us of each other! Additionally, I want to be with someone who can grow together with me to become both a better individual but also better partners too.
- Someone who has similar interests as I do! This is not really a requirement to have but it’s something nice to have since it’ll also give us more things to talk about together!
- Someone who is down to voice/video chat! In my opinion I feel like I'm a really good texter but despite that texting can sometimes be hard to convey your feelings & emotions. I feel like calling each other over the phone is more meaningful to me since it makes it a lot easier to understand each other's tones when we talk!
- I’m a huge hopeless romantic and would love to meet someone who is also a hopeless romantic as well! I absolutely love doing all those cute and romantic couple things you’d always see on like Tik Tok, kdramas and/or romance shows/movies! You know things like going on cute dates together whether that would be dates in the city or dates at home, exploring the city/world together, trying new things together and overall just making everlasting fun cute memories together that will last a lifetime! (I know that sounds really cheesy haha)
- NSFW:
- Ultimately I want to be with someone who I can be cute, goofy, sweet and wholesome together with on the outside like you see all over tik tok and in real life too but if I’m being honest I also want to be with someone who I can also be freaky and kinky together on the inside too! I love having that duo dynamic in a relationship with my partner. It’s like the best of both worlds yah know? I’d say I’m a pretty kinky person, but that's also for you to figure out yourself whether that is true or not. ;)
- I'm a switch, dominant leaning and I feel like you can best describe me as a soft dom.
- Here are some of the kinks I am into!
- Daddy Kink, Cumplay, Creampies/Breeding, Exhibitionism, Degradation, BDSM (Spanking, Choking, Blindfolding, Bondage/Restraints), CNC/Freeuse, Foreplay (especially giving oral & making out), Sex Toys (butt plugs, vibrators, etc.), Orgasm Control, Praise (Giving and Receiving), Role Play
- Aftercare (not exactly sure if this is a kink but would love some cuddles after any sexual activity!)
- Not really a kink but I love a balance of both passionate & rough sex. One day I just want to feel close to you and share some good vibes while making each other just feel good with lots of making out and taking it slow! You know, like making love together! (Haha sorry if that sounds too cheesy) And maybe other days let me have my way with you and make you know you are my.
If you have gotten this far and you feel like we can vibe well, share some common interests or just want to chat please don’t hesitate to hit me up! You can send me a message through reddit chat or DM's whichever you prefer. Please do tell me about yourself when messaging me especially your name (if you're comfortable), your age and where you are from and also what your favorite foods are so that I know you’ve read all of this and as an extra add-on, please also tell me what your favorite ice cream flavor is! I can’t wait to hear from you! I hope you have an amazing and wonderful day!
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