Or maybe it's supposed to be, "Do you need a little spice in your life?" However, my title is phrased exactly as I meant it to be! I think those who I am targeting may know what I mean!

However, let's get to know each other just a little bit better! I can offer any of the below. Just choose your own adventure:

• The sympathetic ear. Something on your mind bothering you? Need an opinion on something? I'm here to help!
• The casual conversationalist. Just looking for a new friend of someone to pass your time with? I'm your guy!
• The Wikipedia of guys. Curious about something from a man's point of view. I'll do my best to provide some insights!
• The casual meet up. Let's grab a drink, whether it be alcoholic, boba, coffee or whatever. Let's chat, flirt, and just enjoy the thrill of meeting a new person. We'll end up wherever our organic interaction takes us. This could include no strings attached fun!
• The fuck buddy. I recently have become more aware recent of the differences between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits. If you are looking for something discreet, casual, and NSA. Then I'm your guy!
• The friends with benefits. As mentioned about, there is a difference. One is about physical pleasure and nothing else, which can be great. This one is an extension where we get along in more ways than just physically.
• The rebound. This one is self explanatory but I promise to be both sympathetic and treat you in a way that hopefully restores your faith in guys, even if some of us are assholes!
• The experimentalist. I have had several conversations and meet ups with fellow redditors in where they expressed an interest in trying new things or fully exploring their kinks. For example, one woman indicated that she had always been treated like a princess but wanted an experience where she was very submissive and wanted it rough. I'm here to help to discuss and explore those kinks safely!
• The "You lost a bet and need to hook up with a stranger from reddit" Before you laugh, this recently just happened! So these type of porn stories DO happen in real life
• The CNC kink - Let's discuss because I feel this one is one that ladies like to explore but you have to be very careful about it!
• The hotwife - I recently met up with one randomly and had a fascinating discussion about the lifestyle and how she started in it. Wouldn't mind finding another one!

Who am I?

• I am Asian
• I am 5'10 and 175 pounds
• I am located in San Jose. But anywhere in the Bay Area is a possibility! Online is ok too!
• I can pay for the drinks! Cheers!
• I can articulate myself in complete sentences complete with proper spelling and punctuation (most of the time!)
• I can carry a conversation without having to rely only on sexual innuendos, although they may pop in here and there.
• I am not crazy! (Although if I was, would I either recognize or admit it?)
• I am somewhat self deprecating and humble (Honestly, I feel there's always someone better out there, so I am by no means your best option, just one of many)
• I am genuine and real. You should totally trust this because, it's the internet, and of course no one lies on the internet!
• I have a decent sense of humor and don't take myself too seriously. See everything above!
• I am vaxxxed/boosted and have recently been tested! Everything is above board!
• I tend to ramble on at times although you would never know it by this post
• I have lots of stories to tell!
• I am heading to Vegas a couple of times for the rest of the year and wouldn't mind some company.

I know what you're thinking. This sounds too good to be true. It's must be a scam. Well, sometimes you have to trust that there are some good people out there. My goal is to try to make whoever I talk to in a little better place than when we met.

So ladies, what do you have to lose? Life is about experiences, so let's make some new experiences!