Crossposted from BDSMpersonals because asians can be kinky, too! I'm a 34 year old guy, fit/athletic (see my profile for pics), professional (probably over educated). Fairly normal in my everyday life, but with a kink streak that runs deep. I’ve been described as chill and laid back, but don’t take that as passive. I’m dominant by nature, however I adore independent women who know what they want and know how to ask for it. I love flirting and teasing, and I can get down to it when the time is right. Although I’m very easy going, when the lights go down, my aggressive, dominant side comes out to play.

I enjoy your stereotypical 30-something Gen-Y things: travel (literally anywhere), food (let’s try ALL the restaurants), cocktails and craft beers, and the Arts with a capital A. I love shooting the shit about what makes us human. Pop culture? I’m a junkie. Art and music? I miss live concerts. The science of how we all fit on this tiny little marshmallow floating through space? That’s my jam. I love learning about different cultures and perspectives (the amount of my time spent on podcasts is low-key embarrassing), and love people who have random bold opinions about inane topics. I like smart, funny, quirky people, and I'm a bit of a sapiosexual (though I abhor that term).

About what I’m looking for: Someone on the sub-to-switch spectrum who wants to explore kink, explore ourselves, and explore the world. Someone with a perverted mind and a kind soul (chaotic good? If you catch the reference). Someone who’s able to find beauty in the mundane or morose. Someone who is both comfortable drinking cheap beers at a dive bar, but also dining on luxurious multi course tasting menus. Someone who enjoys a little pain in the purpose of pleasure.

If you think we’d be a good match, check my profile for pics and drop me a line and I’d love to chat!