Hey there! Sorry in advance because my head's all over the place between my busy schedule and some recent events and reflection.

You might remember my previous posts looking for a FWB. Sex is nice and definitely part of what I miss about a relationship, but I think I've been misguided this whole time and what I want more is affection.

I miss being myself with someone who is being herself, someone to give me frequent kisses or slap my butt and giggle when I walk by.

The hard part is I am looking for something really specific when it comes to a serious relationship and wifey. I don't expect to find a wifey on reddit (if you think you'd be an amazing fit who works on herself like I work on myself, feel free to reach out!) so what I'm thinking is someone who could be my girl but not really be my girl - meaning no commitment and an understanding this is only temporary unless we're a great fit and we fall for each other.

Here's more about me:

• East Asian
  
• Body pics in old posts, babyfaced and more on the cute side rather than the hot side
  
• 5'10"
• Extremely affectionate. If you have a dog I will hug the shit out of it for days. Personality is more on the goofy and easygoing side, I love to laugh and make people laugh and feel at ease.
  
• Seriously, I'm not intimidating or weird. The women I met from reddit have without exception said the same thing the first day I met them: "you're surprisingly normal and chill, didn't expect to find you off reddit".
  
• I've got a new condo, would love to show you around and it has a hot tub and gym and everything. :)
  
• I work out often, enjoy gaming and some sports, love music and playing instruments and singing. I like anime (and other TV shows), I just don't watch as much as I used to.
  
• Tend to go for Asians, leaning more towards the easygoing and bubbly and affectionate girls.

If you're interested, include a description of yourself, and what you're looking for with me! Short messages with no substance are almost always low interest or malicious users!