I'm absolutely sick and tired of these dating apps. They end up no where and no matter how hard I try to keep a conversation going, these people have no personality or are trying to look for ways to promote their OnlyFans or are looking for a sugar daddy. The international chicks are constantly only asking about stocks and cryptos. (Idet they're girls tbh. They're probably fake accounts). I'm not trying to be mean, but... Like... Please. I'm honestly really trying here. What's worse is that all these girls always end up ghosting me. I know that these girls ghosting me isn't necessarily a reflection of who I am, but it still makes me wonder, you know?

Now, look. I'm not being a perv, I don't even bring up anything sexual. I'm not a creep. I'm genuinely a good dude looking for something real. And ideally with someone that's not bat crazy either.

I don't think I'm ugly too. Shoot, I think even Shrek might be better looking than me. Lol, jk. I'm at least better looking than Donkey, okay?

But jokes aside, I'm:

Kind, respectful, courteous, responsible, sociable, clean cut, Korean, decently tall at 5'11/180cm (for an Asian), career driven (going to school to get my MBA rn on top of working full-time), have my own set of hobbies that I love to do/am learning (Audiophile, keeb enthusiast, love all things tech, learning how to golf when time allows, bout to learn how to DJ in a week or so, gaming with friends, bowling, etc).
I have a healthy social life and community around me, I don't smoke or do any kind of drugs, will drink a beer or two with dinner when out with friends, constantly trying to learn and improve myself, 170-175 lbs (77-79 kg), HWP, DDF, INFJ

Kinky - but I usually reserve that for more serious relationships

Do you want my social security number too?

But you're probably asking why am I coming to Reddit of all places? Well... I've had the most fun conversations and most success on here than on any other app. The people I've met in person from Reddit (generally) are really cool and nice.

What am I looking for? Well, I would have said I'm looking for something serious, but because of how many times I've been burned/ghosted, I'd say I'm just looking for a casual relationship now. No pressure on both sides. I just ask you be straight up with me and tell me if I'm not the right person for you. Why is that so difficult these days? It's not like I'm going to put you on blast. You have your preferences and I have mine. Like, we're all adults here... On second thought, maybe not lol ¯_(ツ)_/¯

What about you?

Ideally:

In SoCal, 22-30, 5'2 - 5'8, not married or already in a relationship, no kids, Asian (why else would I post in this sub), HWP, DDF, not crazy, respectful, career driven/working, have a good group of friends, have hobbies, have a personality and actually try to converse?

Well, if you got this far, thank you for coming to my TED Talk lol. Can you also mention the word, "chimaek" so I know you read everything? Haha.

Your pic gets mine. I'm probably going to be responding to messages more than chat but... I'll do my best to get to both.

Thank you and hope to talk soon :) if not, the dating scene is rough out there. May the odds be ever in your favor lol