I have a group of fairly high functioning people ages 23-28, mostly girls and a couple of bi guys, who are all sexually open and have a preference for Asian men. Everyone is really chill and we've been getting together to hang out, drink, suck dicks, etc. every couple of weeks for the past few years.
We have a directory of Asian dudes (many from Reddit) that we invite from, but we lost our favorite to a monogamous relationship almost a year back and still haven't been able to find a good replacement.
The guy we're trying to replace was a 22 year old Chinese/Vietnamese engineering student who would usually visit us after exams, about 5'7" and skinny/fit (but you couldn't tell unless he took his shirt off). He looked really shy and nerdy, but was actually pretty social and into EDM culture. He was also sexually passive/enjoyed anyone touching him, but didn't expect anything or ask us to touch him. I think we found him on Reddit three years ago.
These are the important things we're looking for:
- 18-22 years old; half of us prefer younger men, but most of our current regular guys are a bit older. One girl who is usually down for dick likes the 'mommy' thing (though she's only 26). It's not only looking young that matters, it's also the way you carry yourself/behave.
- Slim or smol body type; we want someone who looks small and passive, not someone who's large and looks like they can overpower us.
- Be high functioning; most of us have careers, a few of the girls are finishing up school (also sugar babies). We like students.
- Self-confidence (but not too much); most younger guys we get have self confidence issues, and the ones who don't are fuck boys. If we ask you to take your clothes off and you're hesitant because you think your dick is small or you're not cute enough, it kills everyone's interest.
- Interested in socialization; we usually don't plan sex, we just plan to hang out, and sometimes sex happens. We prefer people who are primarily there to socialize with us. Most of our current guys only hang out with us in hopes of sex happening.
- Local to Los Angeles; we don't invite guys who are just visiting or live elsewhere. We want people who can potentially be regulars.
- Sexually passive; we don't want someone who's going to try to be dominant or sexually aggressive, we have enough guys like that.
- Comfortable being touched by both genders; this is pretty crucial, you have to be down with both men and women touching your penis. The guy we're replacing identified as straight, but he would let anyone blow him; I could blow him, my friend could blow him, her boyfriend could blow him, or we could all blow him together, and he would still get hard and enjoy it. Most guys we have are only comfortable with guys touching if there are girls involved, which generally isn't fun for anyone.
If you think you would be a good fit, send me a message. We aren't planning anything specific right now, we're just looking for someone we can invite in the future.
EDIT: To be clear, the age part is crucial and it's not just about looks/body type. We have tons of generic slim/fit Asian guys in the 24-28 range, we're not looking for more.
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