I like differences in our age/backgrounds/styles/interests and like range of looks/personalities overall, so open as to who I connect with and I don't write the build-a-person ads since I know it's about mutual attraction, chemistry, energy and it happens person to person regardless of preferences but preferences do factor in adding to the connection too... I've equally liked women who are polar opposites to each- other. Attractive to me is a range not one very specific type, whether 49 or 19, dark or pale, slim petite or busty curvy, a dolled up look or alternative, cute innocent or hot dirty, the quiet booknerd or the lively partygirl, I'm into many 'types'..

I'm Brown with the tattooed, shaved head & beard look. 6ft, currently the beefier use to workout dadbod, well groomed, clean, big on hygiene, mature man seeking good matchup.. I can host & prefer to, live by myself in Burnaby, Brentwood area by the Mall & Skytrain. I prefer later in the afternoons, evenings, nights given that I'm kept busy Monday to Friday business hours so best if you have similar schedule as me

I enjoy D/s core dynamic in bed, I am internally Hedonistic which leads into some outward Sadistic play too, I mostly have Daddy energy overriding all of it and am Dominant in bed. Not to make my kinks the entirety of my identity, I do believe kinky sex, Dom/sub energy is a natural inclination, in modern time we just use labels to try define everything.

I enjoy variances, in play as long as vibes sync. Kink roles, tags and labels aside, we do need to click first. Everything boils down to having mutual attraction with some sort of energy overall. I only enjoy kinky sex with someone who's genuinely internally driven/likes/needs it or it doesn't work

Generally speaking I don't think most of us are solely one way especially with kink. I enjoy both passionate & rougher sex, control with or no restraints, energetic-intense rhythm. I click the most with naturally submissive-servicing in bed. I prefer experienced women, open to amount of overlap in what we each like.. seeking a 'play partner' I sync well with, 'kinky friend with benefits' to indulge myself.. I'm not here looking for dynamics outside of private bedroom fun.. I'm busy enough and want something worthwhile to add to life

Overall, I do like a mix in bed: extended foreplay, gropey hot heavy makeouts, both the slower passion filled tempo and more rough varied spirited sex, going from tender to rough and aftercare, multiple orgasms for us both from repeated reciprocated oral and sex playing hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions in a more raw primally driven sex. Toys, restraints are nice add-ons yet not always necessary since it's about physical and mental connection, and I enjoy things like full body massages, ANR/breastplay, physical tactile erotic cuddling touching overall and so on..