Hello and happy new year to all, I hope everyone has a good 2025. I am a nerdy guy who just turned 40 trying to find that special someone to spend time with. I normally write pretty big posts, but I think I am going to keep it a lot shorter this time around. That being said if you want more information, the posts are floating around still so feel free to poke around my profile and read them. Make sure to take a peek at my awesome game room pics as well while you are browsing!

Here is some basic info to get started, I am White, 6.2, 220, BS degree in IT, own my home here in central California along with some land, love animals, ISFJ personality, love intimacy and gaming.

I would prefer someone local to California as its easier to visit each other via driving rather than flying, but technically I am open to anywhere in the US. Outside of the country is most likely a no-go though, but let’s be honest if you were outside the US would you really want to come here right now anyway? >.> If it wasn't for spending a metric ton building a house I would be trying to come to you lol...

You would need to be open to relocation as I am not planning on moving anymore, it took me many years and a lot of resources to build my house. I have plenty of land though so you are more than welcome to add additions to the house to help suit your needs/wants if that is a worry for you in relocating.

Like many who post on here I am a gamer, and it’s definitely one of my primary hobbies. I am looking for someone who is also a gamer, doesn’t matter how much or what you play, if you share a passion for them that is all that matters. I also share many other nerdy hobbies such as anime, board & card games, and love binge watching things etc etc.

Along this same vein I am introverted and more so of a homebody. I do love animals though and enjoy trips like one to the zoo. Concerts ( especially gaming ones ) and amusement parks are a great trip too. I am not interested in traveling the world, but a little traveling is ok, Japan would be my #1 trip if it came up.

I do not have nor want children, looking for that easygoing childfree lifestyle to enjoy our hobbies, quality time, and trips together, no children involved. I am not religious; I don’t mind if you are as long as it’s not forced upon me. I am not political but if you happen to be a trump supporter then we are not compatible. Happy to share pictures when you message me.

Very Flexible on age/ethnicity/body type. Mid 20’s to early 50’s, any ethnicity, and as for body type as long as you are healthy that is fine whether on the small or large size both ht/wt. I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs. Intimacy is important to me, my love language is physical touch, so cuddling is definitely important, clingy people are welcome and awesome to me.

I am old, know what I want, and what will work for me. It feels really weird writing such a short post lol, they are normally like 4x this size. So as a quick recap if you are able to relocate in the future, love intimacy, gaming, and don’t have the “I want to travel the world itch to scratch”, then please send me a chat or message if you would like to chat and tell me your favorite game of all time! For bonus points to see if people read all the way put Kupo! in your message. I am trying to adjust the length of my posts to not be huge but still with all the relevant info. If you want more information don’t hesitate to check out my history. You don’t have to write me an essay but anything super short I will likely ignore as I will assume it’s a bot or someone fake. Happy 2025, best wishes and luck to all.