A quick description about myself: 33M, Malaysian Chinese (based in Melaka/Malacca), about 170cm tall, chubby. I'd say average looks.

I'm usually introverted, but willing to spend a lot of time with those that I'm close with. As for leisure, I mostly enjoy visual novels and JRPGs, but I don't mind most other games if we can enjoy them together. I also enjoy puzzle-like stuff like sudoku, rubiks cube etc. (I'm a programmer by trade).

Basically I'm looking for someone where we can spend time comfortably with each other, whether it be chatting, gaming etc., and willing to share stuff like moments or feelings with each other, to help each other be less lonely. And hopefully on a somewhat consistent basis. Doesn't have to be exciting stuff, just a mundane/simple "How's your day" would be plenty.

As for what chatting with me could be like: I suppose I'm more of a "dry" type? Unless I'm curious about something specific, I usually start off with something like "How're you doing?" and build off of that. I'm not really flirty, and I rarely use exaggerative words (if I "like" something, I won't say that I "love" it. If it's "good", I'm usually don't say it's "great". If someone upsets me, I don't immediately start insulting. Actually, I don't think I've ever called someone stupid or something like that.). If I'm in-person in a group, I usually do deadpan-tone ("cold") jokes on reflex if the opportunity presents itself. If you let me drive a conversation, I would tend to ask questions to find out more about you. So if you'd rather focus the conversation on me, then just ask questions about me. If it's something I'd rather not share at the moment, then I'll just say so. In a way, I suppose I'm a blunt/straightforward type. I also don't mind listening to people vent, I'll just listen till you feel better.

I also want to note: I'm not looking for marriage nor sexual stuff. I'm fine with hugs or cuddles, but nothing more.

Ideally, I would prefer spending time in-person (I think I'm a lot less anxious that way), so hopefully you're also based in Melaka/Malacca and we can meet up sooner rather than later. But if not, we can try out just chatting online to start with.

If you're still interested after reading all that, drop me a message to introduce yourself and we'll see how things go. Who knows, maybe one day we could be comfortable enough with each other that we could spend time in silence without it being awkward.