Hi everyone!

I'm a Chinese American gal looking for connections with other people of Asian descent. Adulthood is hard and lonely, but the friends you make stay with you :) I'm lucky enough to have a small group of ride or die friendships, but I always love making more friends and meeting more people.

I like spontaneous trips. I love car camping and staring at a camp fire, but I also love going to cities and just walking around and just taking it all in...? I've lived in LA, Chicago, NYC, and Seattle before, and have loved them all in very different ways. I work remotely and am figuring out my next big move.

I'm traveling a lot this year. Vancouver, San Diego, San Francisco, and Daytona Beach are in the books for H1 of 2025. (I am a corporate girlie, sue me.)

I love novelty and doing things I'm bad at. Fishing trips, white water rafting, a pottery class... you name it. I like going into a restaurant and ordering a safe dish I know I'd like, and then a dish that just seems a little crazy.

This year, I'm trying to go to ALL the concerts that the angsty middle school me would've wanted to go to. Chiodos, PTV, etc. If you want to sing badly to emo/post-hardcore/pop punk songs at karaoke, I am your girl.

I enjoy reading, and my goal this year is to be able to run a 5k. Accountability buddies will always be great. Someone who also likes to overanalyze books/movies/shitty reality TV will also be lovely.

My social battery is pretty small, so sometimes I like just sitting in silence while someone else is on the line.

Sometimes I play video games, but it's not something I've done in the last year because work has been hectic and oftentimes I just want to not think or look at a screen. Lately I've been taking long walks in my neighborhood or driving to see a friend (and making them walk in the cold with me).

I'm straight and single, but I am not prioritizing a romantic relationship at the moment. I want to build my platonic bonds, but I'm not entirely closed off to the possibility of something more. I just want to set expectation that it's most likely not what's going to happen. I'm not interested in casual flings or hookups, because an emotional/intellectual connection is a prerequisite to sexual attraction for me.