Happy New Year to everyone! I am looking for that special someone to build a future together with. I have met some wonderful people on reddit, but not quite the one for me yet. Still optimistic that she is out there somewhere.

Physically:

I am 32, living on the east coast. I am 5'7", Southeast Asian, mix of muscular/dad bod type physique. I work quite random hours in healthcare but try to workout at least 2-3 times a week.

About me:

As mentioned above, I work in healthcare in the Emergency Room. Despite being an introvert (ISFJ), my work requires a lot of social interactions which leaves me quite drained. I tend to be more of a homebody but do enjoy time out with my partner, less inclined to go to bars/clubs.

Some of my hobbies include, but are not limited to: Trying various restaurants, cooking, hiking, weight lifting, PC building, spending time with family, video games, and binging shows (anime/TV - definitely recommend Arcane on Netflix or TLOU!).

Personality wise I am a good listener, considerate, patient, intelligent, open minded.

I enjoy various types of music such as Kpop, RnB, instrumental pieces, Rap/Hiphop, Jpop, etc.

I am open to children, although I think the decision is ultimately up to the woman to decide since she does nearly 100% of the work in childbearing. But I lean more towards wanting kids than not.

Looking for:

I am looking for my future partner. Someone who's hand I can hold as we walk through the various food markets of the world. Someone who would challenge me but also someone who compliments me so we can improve together. I hope to travel much more in the coming years so definitely looking for a partner who can come along for the journey.

I value those with good communication skills, honesty, and a foundation of good values whether that be moral or family based.

I recent got back from Japan in August so if you need recommendations let me know! I'm looking forward to traveling to South Korea, Thailand, and Iceland to name a few.

While I am not looking for someone with any particular interests or hobbies, sharing some common interests would be nice. Video games are a large part of my life since I was young so it would be nice to share that passion with someone else.

I am looking for someone who is emotionally mature and able to communicate what they feel. I am the type of person who wants to understand your joy, happiness, frustration, anger, disappointment in hopes that I can either recreate it or fix what might be causing it.

Open to a LDR with the right person, but there needs to be plans for relocating one way or the other.

Misc:

Thank you for taking the time to read through my rather long post! I hope to hear from you. Feel free to DM me or send a chat. I would prefer to exchange pictures relatively soon after interacting so we can get the physical attraction aspect out of the way and not waste each other's time.