Pretty much what the title says. It’s getting cold out! Its cuffing season and the time of year when we feel even colder and lonelier then usual. I am looking for either a cuddle buddy, which can be purely platonic, or otherwise, or a FWB situation. I am however looking for emphasis on the buddy or friends portion of either of those. Coming over to hang out, binge watch some stuff, grab some food, talk with each other, cuddle, give each other a massage, etc etc and not jumping straight to the cuddle or fun part would be ideal.

If you were just looking to come over for the cuddle or fun and then take off, that’s not exactly what I would be looking for and I am sure there are plenty of people around who’s alley that is up.

Physical touch is my love language and I love cuddling! I enjoy giving massages and have a hot tub, ever had a massage in a hot tub? Come over and try it out! :p If you are thinking he loves cuddling, giving massages, and has a hot tub what’s the catch? Well the catch is I live in central California, not north or south. It seems like not many people are in central cali on this platform >.>. If you happen to be in central cali wonderful! I lucked out. If you are in north or south I still welcome you over. It might be harder to visit randomly if you are far away, but I don’t mind you staying for the weekend or even longer. If you happen to work from home or don’t work right now I don’t mind you staying for a week or multiple weeks, lets shoulder the cold together!

I don’t really have any preferences on a type of person I am looking for, everyone gets lonely and needs some cuddles. That being said if you happen to be somewhat nerdy we will vibe much more. I am your typical introverted homebody type. That being said If you happen to be an extroverted outdoors person no worries! There are no requirements here on personality, ht/wt/age/nationality etc etc.

I am white, 6.2 215, pics available, own my home. I pretty much spent my 30’s bettering myself and workings towards certain ideals and goals and have now finished everything. I was alone most of that time though and became kind of touch starved and pretty lonely. I am getting older and figured why not right? I don’t really have anything to lose other than a little time by throwing this up. I tried this a couple months ago but unfortunately nothing came out of it. It’s definitely colder now though!

Be open to talking on the phone and video chatting. I will not be inviting you over without getting to know you first :p

I imagine these kinds of posts are riddled with bots, fake people, and traps so please add the phrase Kupo! Somewhere in your message to me so I know you read most of it at least or I likely wont respond, ( ok I actually probably still will.. I’m cold and lonely >< but hey bonus points if you do!) Chat or message is fine. Please tell me a little about yourself, a rough estimation of where you are, and what you are looking for out of something like this, thanks and I hope everyone finds their cuffing partner, cheers!