I'm a 36 year old guy, fit/athletic (see my profile for pics), professional (probably over educated). Currently based in Portland, Oregon but travel often and can travel to you if the vibe is right. Fairly normal in my everyday life, but with a kink streak that runs deep. I’ve been described as chill and laid back, but don’t take that as passive. I’m dominant by nature, however I adore independent women who know what they want and know how to ask for it. I love flirting and teasing, and I can get down to it when the time is right. Although I’m very easy going, when the lights go down, my aggressive, dominant side comes out to play.

I enjoy your stereotypical 30-something Gen-Y things: travel (literally anywhere), food (let’s try ALL the restaurants), cocktails and craft beers, and the Arts with a capital A. I love shooting the shit about what makes us human. Pop culture? I’m a junkie. Art and music? I love live shows. The science of how we all fit on this tiny little marshmallow floating through space? That’s my jam. I love learning about different cultures and perspectives (the amount of my time spent on podcasts is low-key embarrassing), and love people who have random bold opinions about inane topics. I like smart, funny, quirky people, and I'm a bit of a sapiosexual (though I abhor that term).

About what I’m looking for: Someone on the sub-to-switch spectrum who wants to explore kink, explore ourselves, and explore the world. Someone with a perverted mind and a kind soul (chaotic good? If you catch the reference). Someone who’s able to find beauty in the mundane or morose. Someone who is both comfortable drinking cheap beers at a dive bar, but also dining on luxurious multi course tasting menus. Someone who enjoys a little pain in the purpose of pleasure.

If you think we’d be a good match, check my profile for pics and drop me a line and I’d love to chat!