Just trying to find someone who has mutual attraction with me to go on a date with.

Just let me know what your top three favorite cuisines are and what dish you like from each. we can pick a date spot based on that or whatever you're craving. It's a plus if you wanna grab drinks too. But I'm not trying to get plastered or anything, since it's a weekday and we need to be responsible adults. But if we click and we don't want the night to end, I'm not against that either. But my priority is to go on a date and get to know a gal.

Me: 36 Asian (Chinese/Viet). 5'9 195lbs. I'm fit ish? But also dad bod? I don't know. It's a weird gray area. Just know I ain't walking around with a 6 pack because food is too good and life is too short. You can see for yourself I suppose.

I work full time in the public sector. I'm into nerdy things and non nerdy stuff too. Reading manga, anime, marvel, sci Fi shows. Stuff like that. But I also have a non nerdy side and like to watch random Japanese dating shows about old ppl dating 🤷‍♂️. Tired of seeing young, good looking rich kids all the time. Not a fan of hiking but I'll do it once a month to show my affection. But my hatred will grow with each hike til the end of my days. I do like cycling and boulder climbing. Preferably cycling when the sun is down or I dip myself in a giant vat of sunblock. Boulder climbing not as much as I used to....I could get back into it more if things weren't so expensive with life in general.

If you're curious about politics, globally I'm moderate and central, US wise I'm a leftist.

You: no preference with age (obviously legal in the state of California). If you're a gal who is 45 and we find each other attractive I'm down. If you're a single mom, I'm down Height isn't an issue Body type - I have preferences for above average to smaller types. But it really just depends on your look overall. If that makes sense.

If it feels like I'm casting a wide net, I'm not really? Because that mutual attraction bit still needs to happen and that's pretty subjective on my part

All in all. I just wanna have a nice chat, dinner, and hopefully drinks too. then see where things go from there.

If you're interested, definitely hit me up with a pic and the top 3 cuisines thing. I'll send you one back afterwards. Sorry just skeptical and paranoid about posting my pics publicly.

Preferably OC. But IE, LA, upper SD county I could make exceptions for.