Hi I'm 31M 5'11" Asian muscular with a squish (HWP) & tatted.

The situation: I'm going to an event hosted by a friend who is also friends with my ex, and I found out she'll be attending. We ended things after 2 years because we weren’t on the same page when it came to intimacy. She had some personal challenges she wasn’t working through, and despite my efforts to be patient and understanding, I struggled with not having my needs met in the relationship. We met up once after the breakup, and I fell hard because I missed the good times we had together. We haven’t kept in touch since. I think I’m over it now (or at least, I tell myself I am), but I’ll admit, I fear I'll fall hard again. I’m a sucker for romanticizing things.

That said, I could really use a distraction. I'm open to a ONS. FWB? I'm even open to a relationship tbh (if it feels right). I’m just looking for someone else to romanticize. It’s been awhile since I’ve been with someone. Dating apps haven’t been doing it for me lately, so... here I am :')

A few things about me and some things I enjoy:

• My friend said I look intense because of my tattoos and RBF, but I promise I’m actually super sweet and chill once you get to know me!! :')
• I’m a dry texter, so I prefer calling over texting when I can
• I’m very nurturing - I’ll make sure you’re always fed and taken care of
• I tend to be more of a listener than a talker, but I’m really good at being present
• I show love through acts of service, but I definitely appreciate words of affirmation in return
• Games - Looking forward to MHWilds, maybe start Elden Ring DLC, love co-op games, also board games
• Anime - latest obsessions are One Piece, Frieren, and Delicious in Dungeon, not currently watching anything else. Send me recommendations please!
• Big back activities - Always down to explore new restaurants, coffee spots, and dessert places
• Cooking - Mainly whatever random recipes pop up on my FYP. I also love putting in extra effort to cook yummy foods for my partner
• Staying Active - Gym and running, I wanted to pick up tennis but I need a coach
• House plants
• Smiskis
• Seasonal fruits - It's almost sumo citrus season!!

Just to put it out there, I tend to prefer other Asians and someone younger than me but please don't let that deter you if you think we'll be a good fit. Thanks for reading!